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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    When are you supposed to go out? This makes a big difference since you don't want her determining your schedule.

    Anyways, she's given you the power now and that's the behavior you wanted so you need to reward her somehow. There are several ways you can approach this.

    (1) Just agree to go out with her, but make it EXPLICIT that she is inconveniencing you;
    (2) Agree to go out with her, but change the plans a bit, like the time you were going to meet. Say something like you're busy then so you need to meet at X time instead of when you originally planned;
    (3) Tell her that you can't meet that night, but you can hang out the next day (or sometime VERY soon); or
    (4) I like your "Sure, we can go out then, but bring your modelling photos so I can decide which ones the sexiest :P"

    Nicely done btw, you've won so far!
    I usually go out both Fridays and Saturdays, but I will go for the declining and very soon option as I don't go much to that place, and furthermore she will be there with friends and I don't want to tie myself down and then force my friends in a specific place just because she's there.

    Thank you TheDuke, much appreciated, all these suggestions have been extremely useful.

    BTW, why do you say "sometimes VERY soon"? To avoid the good intentions/mood from fizzling away?

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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    Quote Originally Posted by lucifer7 View Post
    I usually go out both Fridays and Saturdays, but I will go for the declining and very soon option as I don't go much to that place, and furthermore she will be there with friends and I don't want to tie myself down and then force my friends in a specific place just because she's there.

    Thank you TheDuke, much appreciated, all these suggestions have been extremely useful.

    BTW, why do you say "sometimes VERY soon"? To avoid the good intentions/mood from fizzling away?
    I say "VERY soon" because like I said, she is giving you the behavior that you are looking for so you have to reward that behavior or else she'll stop responding how you want. How you reward behavior is by showing an ioi. So if you say you're not going to go out with her after she gave in to you, then you have to do something to show your interest. The best way to do that is to say that you're free another night soon.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    I say "VERY soon" because like I said, she is giving you the behavior that you are looking for so you have to reward that behavior or else she'll stop responding how you want. How you reward behavior is by showing an ioi. So if you say you're not going to go out with her after she gave in to you, then you have to do something to show your interest. The best way to do that is to say that you're free another night soon.
    Aha, I see, makes sense, thanks!


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