Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks
I would pay attention to the investment. You put a lot of thought into those plans and it shows. It would be ok if she was doing the same, but my guess is she isn't.
Next time focus on just telling her what she should wear and surprise her. If she knows where you are going then she can choose the better of alternate plans and may feel your plans aren't exciting enough like ones with her friends....or another guy. Don't let her know. Don't be like clockwork. Leave a little mystery.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."