I have a girl from Colombia, been dating her for about a month now. From the very beginning, I paid for all of our dates. I expected her to make up her mind and start investing something back into our relationship.
Of course, she cooked something several times for me. But I during the last month, I spent roughtly $300 bucks just on her.
I believe going Dutch is the best way to go, because both parties invest equal in relationship.
Yesterday, we had major argument. She invited me to a restaurant and when the bill came and I saw no action from her side I said: "Who is paying today?"
She answered promptly: "You pay!"
Me: "Ok, but the next time it is your turn"
She: "Never, you pay for all the dates. I am the lady. I don't pay."
After we left restaurant, we almost broke up just because of this. What would you guys do if you were me? I don't want to keep sponsoring her and I told her that.