Appreciate you're sharing your thoughts here.
I'm not sure if I would friendzone her yet. Tomorrow we are going out on a 'date', having dinner at a nice restaurant and having a walk in the park when it's dark (she suggested the latter herself) and having a drink afterwards. She also suggested to do some activities we both love to do. She's been giving me ioi's, but I'm still not sure how to interpret those.
I've been dating a few girls in the past couple of weeks and since recently I'm working on an department with 15 ladies and 1 other guy, lol. I've learned quite a bit in a relatively short time. Plus I'm sure we'll be having a great time tomorrow, no matter what. So I'm not really nervous or whatsoever (I'm rarely nervous for anything, to be honest).
I'll Kino, push&pull, work things up, and see where it goes. I might actually tell her how I feel, depending on if the situation feels right and if I've got the feeling she might actually feel the same, and only then. But I'm still not sure if I should tell her; I'm not afraid for a No, I'm afraid it would hurt our relationship as friends if she doesn't feel the same way.
If it's obvious that she doesn't feel the same way as I do after tomorrow, then I'll take your advise into serious consideration!
Any thoughts on the above?
I've also got a question for you; How do you feel about your girl having a boyfriend? How do you deal with it?
Isn't it damn hard to see her having a blast with another guy and spending less time with you?
As an attractive guy that i believe u are you need to take it hard by the horns.Don't care about ruining this one take chances.if you are scared work with a few other girls as said.my 2 cents is that you need to feel better about yourself this girl killed your swag and self confidence in general.
find one system and stick with it.practice.Do not give a damn about how she will feel cuz you haven't really gotten her attention yet.even if you do its important you multiply your options.
i would have given you a little bit input but i believe once you're out there practicing you will get a hang of it.