I know I'm new to this forums (I've been reading it for quite a while though), but I would appreciate your thoughts on the following.
I've met a girl about 2 to 3 months ago, and the past months we've been talking a lot. Especially during nighttime (occasionally till 5am), a lot via Facebook chat and texts, but never a call. In December I had dinner with her, her sister and a friend of hers. Two weeks after that I went to the movies with her (1st January). She insisted to pay for the movies, but I payed for the drinks afterwards. We both liked it! No Kino.
When I asked her to go out again, she happily said yes, but asked me "as friends, right?" I replied with "sure", since I wanted to tell her I have more feelings for her in real life; not via chat/texts. Plus we would go on that 2nd date a few days later, but we didn't go on a second date yet, she has been sick for a week and we both had exams the last 2 weeks. We did study together the morning before an exam, but a friend of hers was there too. We might go play tennis or go swimming this Thursday evening.
Now, the confusing part (at least for me): She tells me very personal things, like showing me poems her ex-boyfriend of 7 years ago sent her, talking about how she sees her future family and that she wants that soon (so she wants a long-term relationship), and other personal details. She's sometimes initiating texts when I intentionally don't reply immediately. Sends me flower emoticons, heart-kiss emoticons, heart emoticons, calling me sweet/sweety, cuty, kuchi kuchi, wishing me sweet dreams, always wanting to send me the last kiss, and so on.
This morning she told me she couldn't sleep last night because she was crying over another guy she didn't talk to for over three months, because they didn't have their contact details (except for home address). When I asked her for how long she knew him, she told me for a relatively short time. (OUCH)
Furthermore, we're Dutch, I'm an atheist, she's a Muslim (but very open minded, she had atheist BFs before).
If you're familiar with pandora's box: She seems to be an Investor, Denier, and Idealist. She's very caring for her family, but also for me. I tested her to talk about sexual items, but she didn't respond very openly on that. And I would be very surprised if she would be a Tester (but then again, Testers may appear as Investors). I'm just a beginner with Pandora's Box though.
Long story short, I'm confused. Not sure what to do. I need your help.
What do you think of it? Please be dead honest, any critics on myself are very appreciated as well.
Oh and do you think I should ask her how she feels about us? Obviously she will return the question and I'll have to tell her that I would like to see where it goes; as more as friends.
In the end, I really don't want to lose her; she's one of the best personalities I've ever met.
Thanks again for taking your time reading this, It's quite a bit..
If something is not clear to you, please say so. English is not my native language.