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Thread: POF Conversation with HB10 but with N-Close failure

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    Default POF Conversation with HB10 but with N-Close failure

    I opened up this HB10 on POF with a generic opener, had a few sh*t tests but kept going, but failed on the N-close. Please help and give me some advice on what to do better next time.


    Me: You seem like an adventurous person by your profile, if you had the chance, would you go swimming with sharks? (She had pictures of her going mudding which lead me to the adventure)

    Her: Would but I can't swim lol

    Me: That's ok, we could probably put little arm floaties on and all you would have to do is look down. My name is sagu, what's yours?

    Her: Arm floats.... pooh can I get them in pink!!!! Oh god I can't wait.... lmfao

    Me: Typical girl, pink floats. I think Walmart sells some. Would you pet the shark? ( I did this to move on from my first failure of asking her name. Maybe needed to build more comfort)


    Her: H*ll ya I would

    Me: I think they would make awesome pets. I would name on Tiger and the other one Simba. Weird huh? I would teach them to do tricks like dolphins would. So whats your name shark petter?

    Her: Everyone calls me jen city. (Hiding something?)

    Me: Nice to meet you jen city. Everybody calls me crane guy. You have some awesome muddin pics, is that your truck?

    Her: Well ive sold both bronco n silver ado ... sry while I go cry over them.........

    Me: Aww, you poor thing. It must be tough to lose something that close to you! Did you give them a going away party?

    Her: I drank my sorrows away for many notes..... wwwwaaaaaaahhhhhh

    Me: Eh, I thought I heard a whaaaaammmbulance going by. But I guess in life, there are new beginnings. This truck will come in your life, and rock your socks off. You will forget about bronco and silver ado, and be all over the new truck. Maybe fall in love.

    Her: What kinda truck n r u talkn in code to me...... (possible sh*t test)

    Me: Hmm, depends if you are a dodge, chevy or ford type of girl?

    Her: Well what u got

    Me: A dodge, but its not really a truck. A mid-size SUV. It gets me from point A to be, and still has some class to it.

    Her: Bahahahahahaha (Don't understand this)

    Me: Haha, it has some mileage on it. Runs well for the mileage it has. What type of car you have?

    Her: Ford ranger is my daily driver y

    Me: Stick or automatic?

    Her: Auto :-(

    Me: Why so sad? You like driving a stick?

    Her: Ive always had 5 speeds till two years ago

    Me: My first ford ranger when I was in high school was a stick. They were fun to drive but a b*tch on icy roads and hills. It seems like the sticks are going out. Truly sad.

    Her: I agree it is sad I love them

    Me: Most kids these days do not even know how to drive a stick. Although I did screw up one time and shifted from 3rd to 1st. Screwed up my engine really bad. Never did that again.

    Her: Ha ha ha ha dats funny sry

    Me. I was being an idiot and trying to do a scratch, cost me some $$$ to replace plus I was out of a vehicle for a good week. Lesson learned

    Well Jen city, it was nice talking to you. I got to catch some sleep. I had fun chatting with you, you keep the conversation interesting and witty which is an A+ in my book. Maybe I can give you a call and we could race our vehicles, a dodge vs a ford? Place your bets!

    Her: Um I lose on race nite nite


    I didn't respond back. My n-closed failed. Really pretty girl. So if I can get some advice on the pros and cons of my conversation, it would be great. I am still a newb at online dating and PUA.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: POF Conversation with HB10 but with N-Close failure

    Maybe it's just me but I find that if I'm going to get a girl's number, it only takes 3-5 msgs MAXIMUM. Any more than that, she's either playing hard to get (which isn't worth your time) or she's not into you and is replying just to be polite.

    Me: Random question with a one-word answer (not a yes or no question either)
    Her: Reply to question
    Me: Oh, no one's ever answered that before. What about (another random question)?
    Her: Answers again.
    Me: Some kind of teasing comment (This is the make or break point, usually. If she replies to this, you're golden. If not, she's probably not any fun anyway. Move on.)
    Her: Blahblahblah (Her response is dependent on my tease so I can't really babystep you through this part.)
    Me: Positive reinforcement (eg Lol, you're a dork =p)
    Her: Same as last step
    Me: Let's continue this over text msgs...what's your number?

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    Default Re: POF Conversation with HB10 but with N-Close failure

    You're spending too much time trying to make conversation & building rapport too quickly. (You're setting yourself up to be "friend zoned" right from the start)

    You need to tease & banter more.
    You started off just fine, but then jumped right into rapport & tried to force it.

    Flirting should be fun & playful...
    Don't be afraid to be silly.

    I don't think you blew yourself out yet, but you definitely want to ramp up the flirting if you keep talking with her.

    I have a section in my "Texting do's & don'ts" thread that covers a bit about online dating... and it includes actual messages I sent to a few girls. (as well as THE BEST Number Close I've ever used!!)

    Don't over-think it. Just make it fun & you'll be fine.


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    Default Re: POF Conversation with HB10 but with N-Close failure

    Thanks guys for your responses. I decided to ignore her and her silly games and go and find some other girls to talk with. Since I chatted with her, I n-closed 4 girls, 1 of the girls I already got her to want to f-close me after we meet up, and have another girl wants to meet up next week.


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