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    Default Training Starts Now for me

    Ok, in the next six months, I'm going to work heavily on improving my texting game.

    My last break up can be partly attributed to being poor with texts/messenger. So I want to improve those skills so as to avoid a repeat performance.

    My biggest weakness is that I go on and on, I'm not succinct. I was asked what I thought of something, I may as well have been giving a Times Book Review for the answer I was giving!! Any tips?

    Plus, any tips on better reading what they are after and what to say, during those quieter moments, would be appreciated.

    I'll keep this thread running, if I may, so as to post back progress reports.

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    Default Re: Training Starts Now for me

    Quote Originally Posted by Dave-o View Post
    Ok, in the next six months, I'm going to work heavily on improving my texting game.

    My last break up can be partly attributed to being poor with texts/messenger. So I want to improve those skills so as to avoid a repeat performance.

    My biggest weakness is that I go on and on, I'm not succinct. I was asked what I thought of something, I may as well have been giving a Times Book Review for the answer I was giving!! Any tips?

    Plus, any tips on better reading what they are after and what to say, during those quieter moments, would be appreciated.

    I'll keep this thread running, if I may, so as to post back progress reports.

    First off this is a very good thread. Your post really struck a chord with me and I really like your attitude. You seem like a really cool dude everything seemed very succinct to me in what you said. You conveyed a complex idea in very few words which was awesome.


    Now I don't know how long you have been in the game but I got in the game last year after a super hard rejection by an HB9 that worked at The Buckle. I had always been teetering on being a player or not being one but eventually learned it evolved into this PUA stuff. That being said I think the most important thing for you is to keep your enthusiasm. I know I at one time felt the same way about the game but now I feel more reserved and reflective on what I am doing wrong or where I can improve. My enthusiasm is still there just more reserved for the right timing of success and results. That's really where I feel the most alive anyway.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dave-o View Post
    Ok, in the next six months, I'm going to work heavily on improving my texting game.
    This is a very good goal man bravo. I just made a goal for the next 6 months as well. My goal is over the next 6 months to work out heavily in the gym starting next week. I think I suffer a lot of inner game issues from a lack of confidence from girls telling me I should work out, their arms are bigger than mine, etc. So I am really just taking a potential 6 month break from the Game as I have learned the basics and will make a come back hopefully this summer with a better physique. This will greatly improve my inner game I believe.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dave-o View Post
    My biggest weakness is that I go on and on, I'm not succinct. I was asked what I thought of something, I may as well have been giving a Times Book Review for the answer I was giving!! Any tips?
    I have learned some time ago you cannot force things on people only imply things as they were. You already sound like you are self-aware which is a great step to high performance in those critical moments. I lack a bit of self-awareness at times when it comes crunch time and I am busting out set after set. Being in the Game since last year and approaching HB 6's- HB 9's I can tell you right now N-closing is pretty easy and the fear of rejection has worn off but aa still hurts a little time to time when I get too stuck in my head.

    My tips?

    Sure here goes.

    I have had quite bit of practice texting women and I think this is one of the hardest phases in the game to excel because I get caught up here a lot.

    1. Mix up your texts. Make some short and others long as heck like you might use up to 2 or so to get across a message. (Don't stick to a pattern)
    2. Always start out texting someone by introducing yourself, saying where you met, and sharing a moment you both had together to bring her back and instill those positive vibes.
    3. Don't over text. Space it out and text every other day and not more than twice a day if she is not responding
    4. Be funny, interesting, and daring but don't overdo it. All things in moderation buddy.
    5. Mix up some calls in there. Don't be as I was texting an HB9 7 times then finally calling and getting next-ed for it. Mix up some calling in there to keep her guessing.
    6. Texts should be simple and engaging. I like to take a simple approach and try to first build comfort by getting her to text me back, talk to me on the phn, etc. Then I work on building attraction by being funny, interesting, and daring.
    I have had it backfire on me big time when I started out texting a girl with Sexual escalation or flirting off the bat. For me flirting right away just doesn't work and I always get the vibe "I am coming on too strong"
    7. Laid back all the way. Do your best to be laid back all the way about the texting game. Don't give up too soon but try to secure a D2 very early and keep her anticipating your time together. Try to build up the hype by talking about how awesome it is to hang out with you and keep building that attraction. Be attracted to yourself and others will follow.

    Final Thoughts
    I generally like to give it time. I will usually stop when I feel it is a lost cause or no longer a chase for me. If a girl is totally unresponsive I will give her about two weeks of periodic contact from me and no contact from her before giving up. Each time she gives a little I give a little and extend the interaction a bit. If she texts me back I generally give her more leeway. Try to keep the two week rule. Pursue her for about two weeks of calls and texts that aren't too needy and throw in the towel if she never gets back to you. If she starts getting back to you then you have some cards to play in your favor and you can start playing her by being the selector rather than her calling all the shots.


    All in all you are doing good and I hope to share more posts myself with this forum once I get some more texting game experience under my belt as I am still not where I want to be yet.

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    Default Re: Training Starts Now for me

    I hope I answered your question but as far as speaking to your previous situation I will say this.

    Being a good texter
    The answer speaks for itself but I'll say it anyway. As far as being a good texted for where you were at the key would be to at Times write book reviews, other times short and sweet, other times too busy to even pick up the phone.

    Keep your outlook simple follow the guidelines I mentioned but to prevent that from happening again try something simple. I have noticed timing and simplicity are two of life's greatest things. With good timing you will go far and by keeping things simple you won't get too stuck in your head or ego-driven.

    Your key area of improvement I would say is to try to prevent from sticking to a routine texting your target. Make it fun for yourself because in the end that's all that matters.

    But yeah go through the motions and dive into things when women want more. Jive with them when they are moving with you. But also never give away your power by always being available or catering to her every whim as we all know here that is going AFC.


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