So I am really new to all of this and need some advise on how to play this.
Background: Me and this HB met a while back she had a bf back then so I was friendly but didn't try and make a move or anything she then went back to uni and is currently studying out of the country.
Since then she and her bf split up and she started to message me on Facebook (I have been making the typical AFC mistake of talking to much) She has asked me on a number of occasions to come and she her where she is studying even though its completely out of the question me getting on a plane to go and she her and she probably knows that, I have always been very none committal or said why don't you come see me(mostly meant as joke)
She messaged me earlier today and i decided to ignore her on the grounds of I figure it’s pointless me continuing to talk to her and make the same mistakes I have in the past then later she messages me this.
i'm thinking of coming to visit..maybe
Really not sure if I should reply and what I should say. Any ideas?