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    Default Her texts are so short. Idk what to think?

    So a brief summary.

    I'm 22 and she is 25. Last Saturday she was at my best friends house (because she's friends with his sister). We had all been drinking having a good time and I started throwing some game at her that I've been learning off this website. We made out and got touchy but that was it. She kept giving me crap about how I'm younger to. Anyways next day I'm heading home, and drop her off home since she lives down the street from me. She wants my number but her phone was dead so I got hers and told her I would text her mine. That night she text me and we talked just for a little, but nothing interesting really.

    So I decided to give her a text on Tuesday and this is how the convo went.

    ME: So how are you feeling today? (Because she was sick)
    Her: Like death
    Me: So short and negative. Better or worse then Sunday?
    Her: Sorry doing hw. Worse. Way worse.
    Me: Well I'm sorry then, I was actually going to make some plans with you this week.
    Her: Sorry, school, homework...dying.
    Me: I guess I could be all cute and shit and bring you some soup or something, since you live so close.
    Her: I'll be gone all day with work and school but thank you.
    Me: I understand no worries. You can always let me know when you're free, so I don't feel like I'm bugging you.
    Her: You're not...yet
    Me: You know your heart skips a beat when I text you.
    Her: Maybe...
    Me: It's okay, you can tell me the truth I don't bite. Well sometimes, but you already know that
    Her: Yea I still got the marks thanks.
    Me: I'm sure you forgive me. I mean if your heart skips a beat when I text you. What happens when I call you, or you decide you miss me and we go out to grab a bite to eat or see a movie.
    Her: Lol. Uh huh.
    Me: Just like I made you laugh and you were probably were just giving me that cute smirk you have weren't you? Lol.
    Her: Oh maybe. I'm off to bed dear.
    Me: If you gave me more than a maybe, that might help just so you know. Goodnight and I hope you feel better.
    (She never responded or said goodnight).

    So basically she's so short in texts I can't read her at all. Is she just playing me, and not interested. Or is she saying things like "maybe.." and other things to play hard to get?
    I haven't text her since Tuesday, and don't know if I should text her again, or wait and see if she ever texts me. Any help would be awesome. Thanks.
    - Josh

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    Default Re: Her texts are so short. Idk what to think?

    I don't see someone who writes short texts, I see someone who is sick and didn't want to talk at the time. You clearly didn't get the message though because you kept texting even though it was obvious she wasn't in the mood. You should have just ejected when she said she was sick and busy and tried again later.
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    Default Short Minded

    Agreed with Duke. If she's interested in you, she will contact you when she's feeling better. Don't be overpowering on her. It just stresses her out and makes you appear needy.

    I once made the same mistake with a girl on exam week. Almost got into a relationship with her, but then I blew it when she got too busy by checking on her almost every day. Although I only sent her one or two message every other day, I should have really just stopped contacting her all together. I should have also seen it as a waste of my time to continue trying to contact her, but I had became emotionally attached at the time.

    It sucks when we make mistakes. However, if we never made any mistakes, how would we learn anything? The important thing is to put the past in the past, learn from it, and then move on towards the future.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Her texts are so short. Idk what to think?

    Thanks guys,
    After reading both of your guys comments and going back to the texts, I kind of see what you mean. I guess I just thought if she didn't want to talk, she wouldn't be responding you know? Since she was kind of responding and saying "maybe..." and so forth, I thought she may have wanted to talk somewhat. The biggest problem I've always had with women is ending a convo first. I also know exactly what you mean about becoming "emotionally attached" @Swagman.

    Well I'm going to wait awhile then. Like I said, that was on Tuesday. If I don't hear from her, should I try to text her later next week to set up plans?

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    Default Re: Her texts are so short. Idk what to think?

    Wait until the end of the week like she suggested. You're still fine, you just came across as a bit socially inept.
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