I previously apologize for not using technical terms since I just found these type of knowledge and communities couple of days ago. This is a long text, and I hope I do not bring you inconvenience with my English as it is my second language.
I met a beautiful girl at a club, and for the first time dared to talk to a stranger lady. I got her number, and went on the first date with her. It all began terrible from the beginning, I think. First off all, there was no physical connection, mostly talking. But in middle everything went well over the dinner, aside from the lack of experience that I showed and I think did not really affect the conversation. Until I asked if she wants to take a walk, and she agreed mentioning she needs to smoke. I entirely lost my focus here assuming she is not planning or expecting any physical connection with me. So I began playing really cold, unintentionally. And then even worse happened when I asked her to check out an old house on the way to her place, and she got scared saying she would not go in that place [with me]. I took this as she has lost all her trust in me. This was where I knew the game was over for that night and became even colder. Anyway, texted her later that night apologizing for my cold and nervous behaviour and saying I hoped she really did not get me wrong. So from a fun person, I dropped down to an apologetic boring guy. Anyway, asked her if she wants to go on a second day, she had a legit reason for this weekend but said maybe next weekends. And here is how I asked her out again for valentine's day as an outcome from a joke. And she stopped responding after that (I should say that we have been exchanging texts for a while before that). I am not sure if I have lost her or not, but assuming I have, what can I do to win her back?
Thanks for you time,