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    Default Texting to get ex back

    What do YOU think is the best text, or series of texts to get an ex back? I've already discussed my opinion of Across the Bow texts elsewhere, texts which I think says everything but doesn't encourage replies, even if reading between the lines the content of the text is predictable and could be understood.

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    Default Re: Texting to get ex back

    The best way to get an ex back is to be ALPHA.
    Confident, fun, charming, positive... etc.

    When you express that you don't "need" her & you're actually OK on your own, that's when an ex will show interest again.

    But when you're trying to get an ex back, you need to game her just like any other girl.
    Be fun & flirty.

    Across the bow texts can be good... but I would tweak them a bit to avoid looking desperate or needy.

    I've used something like, "I just saw a grey-haired woman with a "whale tale" thong.. made me think of you. "

    You DO want to drop hints at being interested in her, once SHE begins to show interest.
    BUT...
    You need to make sure she feels like it was HER idea to have interest again.
    She needs to be the one chasing you... not the other way around.

    Be playful & tease her. But you also have to REALLY BE fine without her & able to get over her.

    Only then will you have a REAL chance of getting an ex back.


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    Default Re: Texting to get ex back

    T-Mal, just tell them to use the search button homie. Why waste your time on the same question 50% of the people come here to ask?
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    Default Re: Texting to get ex back

    I do that sometimes...
    But when i'm feelin the groove & have time, I'll go ahead & give a personal reply.

    Especially whenever I've recently had a similar experience...


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    Default Re: Texting to get ex back

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    T-Mal, just tell them to use the search button homie. Why waste your time on the same question 50% of the people come here to ask?
    Because he is such a nice person and willing to help many people personally.

    If I would be woman I would surrender myself to him once just for that.

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    Default Re: Texting to get ex back

    Quote Originally Posted by batsy View Post
    Because he is such a nice person and willing to help many people personally.

    If I would be woman I would surrender myself to him once just for that.
    Lol. Awkward. But then again if you were a woman you would probably friend zone him for that. Let's be realistic.

    I just don't have pity for it, because I've been there. I wish instead of wondering and creating a beautiful guide on how to get out of the friend zone one of my friends would had told me I could just go out and forget she existed.
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    Default Re: Texting to get ex back

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    Lol. Awkward. But then again if you were a woman you would probably friend zone him for that. Let's be realistic.

    I just don't have pity for it, because I've been there. I wish instead of wondering and creating a beautiful guide on how to get out of the friend zone one of my friends would had told me I could just go out and forget she existed.
    Now, that's a pass.

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