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    Default Text game help :)

    Hey guys,

    So after just coming out of a long term relationship I decided to start getting back into the scene!
    Anyway I met a girl in a bar in town 3 days ago, she's easily a HB7.5-8 on my scale. So I started getting off with her in the bar dancing and the usual. I then isolated her, her friend and my wing to a quieter area so we could talk properly and make a move to get her number, to which I prevailed. There was so much sexual Tension it was unreal, I knew she just wanted it there and then. After the bar shut we said out goodbyes and she went on her way in a taxi, not before inviting me to get in with her. Usually I would have jumped at the chance but I'd had a fair bit to drink and knew I would have been useless in the sack in my current state.

    I've been texting her the last few days and eventually brought up the subject of going for drinks again some time. Initially she seemed very up for it but I soon received a text soon after saying that she was ill and would have to cancel our meet.

    I'm not the best at text game and know that I need to strike while the iron is hot if she is to stay interested in me, this is why I have to meet her asap before she looses interest. I'm finding it really difficult keeping the texting going and would just like some advice from some of you guys if at all possible? I'm kind of deciding whether I should not text her for a few days and just be really chilled out about it but afraid this might make her lose interest.

    I've included the last message conversation, opinions and feedback would be much appreciated.

    ME: Aw noo at least you got up! I only just rolled out of bed haha and no hangover! What you up to tomorrow evening? :-)

    HER: Aw I know, it was such a struggle after 4 hours sleep. Aw lucky haha, I'm so jealous. Not sure, it's my cousin's grandfather's funeral in the day so might be with her but I'm not sure. You?

    ME: Ah that's sad :-( its my friends birthday tomorrow so might be going out for that, not sure though. So when you free for a drink then? :-P

    HER: I know, he was the kindest man and biggest gentleman I've ever met! Aw right nice :) um I don't know, name a day and I'll tell you haha. P.S. I feel so rude but you said your name is Alex didn't you? My memory from last night is a little hazy haha

    ME: Haha lol how rude :-P well it's not Alex but it starts with an A so ill give you another guess ;-) how does sat/sun evening sound?

    HER: Sorry. I haven't stopped sleeping! Just woke up thinking it was the morning haha. Aw no haha, I'm stuck now. Yeah that'll be fine :)

    ME: Omg lazy! I actually just woke up too haha, food time now! And it's Andy :-) awesome I'm looking forward :-)

    HER: Haha I feel so much better now and I'm having food :)aw right haha, sorry I couldn't remember! Same :)

    ME: I was just showering and noticed a massive scratch on the back of my neck, probably from when you couldn't get your hands off me the other night, thanks for that ;-)

    HER: Haha I'm so sorry! I do tend to do that haha

    ME: Oh really! I thought you were a good girl :-P

    HER: Haha on occasions! I'm really sorry, I've been really ill today and just been put on antibiotics so I'm gonna have to cancel going for drinks this weekend. Sorry!

    ME: Oh sorry to hear that, hope you get well soon!

    HER: Aw thankyou :) me too, I'm a miserable bitch when I'm not well haha

    ME: I bet you are ;-) maybe another time when your feeling up for it! :-)

    HER: Haha oi ;) yeah definitely :) I can't even speak at the minute haha

    ME: Shame, you have a sexy voice ;-) at my friends bday party atm, hope your having a good evening

    HER: Haha thankyou ;) I love your accent but don't think I could hear any American in it Andy haha. Aw thankyou, and you

    ME: Thanks :-) well the accent has worn off, I used to have it haha. Now I'm left with the inferior English accent :-( so are you actually a black belt?

    HER: Haha do you promise you're really American? Yeah I've been doing karate since I was six :)

    ME: Yes I am, I'll even prove it to you whenever I see you next :-) ah the black belt doesn't bother me, I bet I could take you down ;-)

    HER: Haha okay :) how are you gonna do that? Haha don't get cocky, only makes me more determined to beat you ;)

    ME: Ah you'll see ;-) I think there's only 1 way to settle this karate kid, be prepared ;-)

    HER: Haha sounds intriguing. Haha sorry but you have no chance ;)


    So what do you guys make of this? She seems interested I just cant keep this texting for for much longer haha.

    Thanks,
    Andy

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    Default Re: Text game help :)

    she seems it

    ME: Shame, you have a sexy voice ;-) at my friends bday party atm, hope your having a good evening
    hoping conveys neediness, and the fact that you've gone to your mates party and then are texting her that your there imo sounds quite weak

    rather than texting her constantly, you can keep it down to 1-2 times a day so you don't wear it out, and then increase it closer to the meet
    **by increasing i mean keeping the energy high before you're about to meet

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    Default Re: Text game help :)

    thanks for the advice hyp, it does sound pretty weak looking back lol (i was a bit tipsy) but she still seems somewhat keen which is good.

    I haven't replied to the last text she sent this morning, mainly because I want to start a new thread later tonight or tomorrow. Do you have any advice on the type of content to include when I text her next? Its so easy to run out of material during this stage.

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Text game help :)

    She's definitely interested from the looks of this conversation. And like you said, it is easy to run out of material. Take hyp's advice - space your texts out. Your goal is to meet up with her without running out of material. Your next text can be something along these lines:

    Hey, karate kid! If your black belt can't help you fight off your illness, you have no chance against me Catch ya later!

    There's your text for one day. Skip the next day - if she texts you, so be it. Try to end the conversation on a high note. Around Tuesday, ask her how she's feeling and say something in regards to that scratch on your neck (builds some sexual Tension). Try to arrange a date from there. Stay in control of the conversation and you'll be amazed at how things fall into place
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Text game help :)

    Thanks for the advice Vicodin,
    I followed you're advice and sent her a similar message to the one you suggested, she didn't reply and I am kind of seeing this as a good thing since I don't want to be texting her too much and lose material. Ended the conversation on a high though.

    So I should not bother contacting her until sometime on Tuesday now? Isn't that a bit long? Saying for example:

    "Hey (nickname?), so how's you're illness been treating you? I'm having an allergic reaction to your scratch on my neck... it keeps conjuring up thoughts of you every time I shower"

    Haha would that do? I'm so bad at text game, I know in person she wont be able to resist me :P

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Text game help :)

    if you've left a text, and then a phone call , and then another text, and then another text? (maybe i added a text by mistake?) but anyway the point is leave it with her, she's either interested or she's not, don't go down needy

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    Default Re: Text game help :)

    Sorry i think you may have misread my post, i haven't phoned her at all. i just followed Vicodin's advice and wondered when and what to say next.

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    Default Re: Text game help :)

    oh i apologise haha, i got you mixed up with some other guys thread

    yeah just wait 1-2 days (if it's 1 text at night ie 930-10pm)

    if you wanna know what to say next, read the stickied guides on the forum, in no time you won't have to ask us (y)

    "hey my foot hurts" credit to Inter for this one rofl i used it the other night, she tried talking about her legs but i insisted my foot was sexier ^_^ it pretty much shows if she's interested or not, because no matter the convo she would always reply

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    Default Re: Text game help :)

    You, sir have given me a wonderful idea. I'll let you know how well I run with it
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    Default Re: Text game help :)

    ok so it appears ive hit another brick wall, i asked her out again and she seems to show interest but says she has other plans.

    HER: Haha why wont you tell me now? aw ive always been told my eyes give everything away haha. i can be goofy you are a charmer arent you andy

    ME: This isnt me charming haha. Because its better of i show you goof, besides, it wouldnt fit in a text! i know, ill tell you over dinner.. pick you up tomorrow at 7:27!

    HER: ooh well this sounds interesting aww that sounds lushh but i have karate tomorrow night :/

    ME: Ah wekk i guess youll never find out!

    HER: Aww no sorry but i have to beat people up tomorrow haha. and i cant miss it because theyve put me down to work thursday because most of the girls have boyfriends haha


    So what do you guys make of that? she appears to be interested but at the same time doesnt seem to want to meet up...

    Any ideas on a good reply to her last message? or what i should do? im at a total loss right now with this girl haha


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