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Thread: How to get booty calls from this girl.

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    Default How to get booty calls from this girl.

    Hey Guys
    I hooked up with this girl during the week, saw her once at new years then saw her again and managed to f-close without much game or any routines - I'm assuming instant attraction.
    However, when we went back to her place we were both too drunk to make each other cum and I'd very much like the opportunity again.

    I want to send her a text that shows I'm fun and masculine but I'm not sure if I'm over-doing it slightly as I've not had much experience. I only really want her as a fark-buddy but I would really like to become her friend as well so I need it to be honest.

    "Hi ____. I have fun last Wednesday, I think you're an interesting girl, and I'd like it if we hung out some more, but I want to finish what we started, so text me when you're available. In the meantime, have a wonderful day!"

    Reviews please!

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    Default Re: How to get booty calls from this girl.

    Im not an expert or anything (i need help too) but i think maybe add in a couple of smileys????

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    Default Re: How to get booty calls from this girl.

    Quote Originally Posted by Desolrit View Post

    "Hi ____. I have fun last Wednesday, I think you're an interesting girl, and I'd like it if we hung out some more, but I want to finish what we started, so text me when you're available. In the meantime, have a wonderful day!"

    How would you feel if you got a text like that? You probably wouldn't care too much for it. Why? There's nothing there to invoke an emotional response. It's bland. Dump it and rewrite it.

    Try using this as a framework:

    Hey, [nickname you gave her]! Drinks on me this week - play your cards right and maybe we'll finish what we started Enjoy your day - more info later!

    You wanna show you're fun? Drop the formalities. You wanna show you're masculine? Make the decisions. Don't tell her to text you when she's available - you tell her when you're available.
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: How to get booty calls from this girl.

    Quote Originally Posted by Vicodin24 View Post
    [/B]You wanna show you're fun? Drop the formalities. You wanna show you're masculine? Make the decisions. Don't tell her to text you when she's available - you tell her when you're available.
    Real good stuff there man... I'm currently working to getting with this girl from work. We've gone out with a bunch of friends already, and I need to ask her to go get a drink, just the two of us... I'll definately give this a shot, I'll let you know.

    Thanks a bunch!
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    Default Re: How to get booty calls from this girl.

    Yeah I strongly suggest playing to emotions here, as Vicodin24 said. A dull text is a total buzz kill (I'm guilty of them sometimes as well). Your original text is likely to begin to turn the lock in the friend zone- which will accomplish only half of your goal (not the important half). Vic's suggestion is pretty solid - just aggressive enough to get the point across, and giving her a plan to attach herself to (you don't want to leave things open ended with the power in her hands). Remember to always take control! Good luck- you already known you're in because she sealed the deal once, just play it cool!

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    Default Re: How to get booty calls from this girl.

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    Im not an expert or anything (i need help too) but i think maybe add in a couple of smileys????
    No

    read the other replies, those are good suggestions.

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    Default Re: How to get booty calls from this girl.

    Quote Originally Posted by Vicodin24 View Post
    How would you feel if you got a text like that? You probably wouldn't care too much for it. Why? There's nothing there to invoke an emotional response. It's bland. Dump it and rewrite it.

    Try using this as a framework:

    Hey, [nickname you gave her]! Drinks on me this week - play your cards right and maybe we'll finish what we started Enjoy your day - more info later!

    You wanna show you're fun? Drop the formalities. You wanna show you're masculine? Make the decisions. Don't tell her to text you when she's available - you tell her when you're available.
    So I've just used this style of message on a chick to try and organise a casual date tonight. I haven't got a response back yet but I'm not really taking that as a bad sign. I said I'd give her more info later so is it likely she's just waiting for me to tell what we're doing? I figure that if she didn't want to meet up, she'd straight away say she's busy. I'm guessing though I should follow up soon and ensure that I do get some sort of response though.

    Any thoughts or opinions on this?
    Cheers.

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    Default Re: How to get booty calls from this girl.

    Personally, I wouldn't follow up. I'd state the plans once and if she doesn't reply, she doesn't reply. No need to get hung up on one girl in any way. Then again, I haven't really had to deal with that except last week. Gave her the date, not really the details. No reply, so I did my own thing and haven't contacted her since.

    Be patient and find someone else if it starts bothering you, although it shouldn't
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: How to get booty calls from this girl.

    Ok so I used that same line but haven't got a reply either. Should I really forget about her or tell her what the plan is? We already had sex one time but might be just a ONS

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    Default Re: How to get booty calls from this girl.

    I know it's probably too late but one rule I've always followed is to never (and I mean NEVER) ask the girl out on the very first text you send her. While the context of Vicodin's text message is good, it should be split up into a few separate texts.

    Start with a text that will get you on her radar, something that will get her curious and will make her want to respond. This could be anything, something as simple as "you won't believe what happened to me today!".

    After you get a response, bring up an inside joke, or something that only she would get. Something that you two talked about or observed last time you saw her in person. This is a bit harder to come up with as there is no same text you can send to any girl because every situation is different. Just make a connection with her that only you two would understand.

    Then for the third text send out the invite. Something similar to Vicodin's text where you are taking charge in a fun and flirty way. His text is good and explains it pretty well so I won't go into much more detail on that one.

    I used to send texts like yours OP and I would get flaked on or even ignored all the time. Now, I can't remember the last time a girl flaked on me. It really works, trust me.


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