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    Unhappy My girlfriend won't go down on me, ever.

    So I've been with her for about 4 months and due to us both living at home we have to be quiet whilst having sex. Sometimes she'll even just stop in the middle of sex, and when I ask her to finish me off she just gets annoyed at me... We don't get to do it that much, twice a week is lucky and I'm lucky too finish one out of four times :/

    If I even ask for head she gets pissy with me.... I've tried being rational and explaining to her how horrible it feels to have to stop mid way through, but this just leads to her getting mad at me for bringing it up. It feels like as long as she's happy she doesn't even care how I feel... She's also quite lazy during sex, not wanting to go on top and making me do all the work which makes her not being willing to go down on me more annoying.

    Any advice as to how I could get her to want to go down on me? Or is this relationship doomed to make me sexually frustrated and miserable?

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    Default Re: My girlfriend won't go down on me, ever.

    Quote Originally Posted by CriticalRap View Post
    So I've been with her for about 4 months and due to us both living at home we have to be quite whilst having sex. Sometimes she'll even just stop in the middle of sex, and when I ask her to finish me off she just gets annoyed at me...

    If I even ask for head she gets pissy with me.... I've tried being rational and explaining to her how horrible it feels to have to stop mid way through, but this just leads to her getting mad at me for bringing it up. It feels like as long as she's happy she doesn't even care how I feel...

    Any advice as to how I could get her to want to go down on me? Or is this relationship doomed to make me sexually frustrated and miserable?
    Couple questions: Do you have swamp balls? If yes, fix that.

    Do you go down on her? If no, then that's also why.

    If she wants to satisfy herself so badly, then hold back sex from her until she starts satisfying you with her mouth

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    Default Re: My girlfriend won't go down on me, ever.

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    Couple questions: Do you have swamp balls? If yes, fix that.

    Do you go down on her? If no, then that's also why.

    If she wants to satisfy herself so badly, then hold back sex from her until she starts satisfying you with her mouth
    Yes, they're swamped.

    No, every time I go to she says she'll be loud and forces my head away

    Might just have to do that....

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    Default Re: My girlfriend won't go down on me, ever.

    Quote Originally Posted by CriticalRap View Post
    Yes, they're swamped.

    No, every time I go to she says she'll be loud and forces my head away

    Might just have to do that....
    Ok, so if you're balls smell, she probably won't go down on you. Wash a couple times a day, buy some gold bond body powder and throw some on.

    If she's worried about being loud, find a place where you can have sex without people around.

    If those don't work, then just hold out on her

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    Default Re: My girlfriend won't go down on me, ever.

    I will have to disagree with you scguitar. I've had women willing to go down on me and not ask for anything in return.

    Now as for your issue, it goes deeper than just a simple bj here and there. Sex with you is not a reward. She is set up as the prize when it comes to sex.

    Now don't get me wrong. I understand the frustration if she stops midway and didn't take the time to satisfy you. Again though, there are so many other issues going on and some don't even have to do with your sex life together.

    If you are looking for a quick fix then my suggestion would be to freeze her out when she does that. But you should really look into building sexual Tension and making sex a reward with you rather than an obligation. If you learn these things I can guarantee that not only will you never beg for sex from her, but you will begin to start turning her down because she'll want it all the time where you just won't have the energy.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: My girlfriend won't go down on me, ever.

    By swamped I meant blue balls, not that they smell. Sorry wasn't sure what you meant.

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    Default Re: My girlfriend won't go down on me, ever.

    do you have a hand? if yes, use it, cuz its gonna be a long couple weeks bro. disclosure, if she is doing the withholding sex, you have to consider the possibility that she is getting it somewhere else. i would recommend withholding tho
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: My girlfriend won't go down on me, ever.

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I will have to disagree with you scguitar. I've had women willing to go down on me and not ask for anything in return.

    Now as for your issue, it goes deeper than just a simple bj here and there. Sex with you is not a reward. She is set up as the prize when it comes to sex.

    Now don't get me wrong. I understand the frustration if she stops midway and didn't take the time to satisfy you. Again though, there are so many other issues going on and some don't even have to do with your sex life together.

    If you are looking for a quick fix then my suggestion would be to freeze her out when she does that. But you should really look into building sexual Tension and making sex a reward with you rather than an obligation. If you learn these things I can guarantee that not only will you never beg for sex from her, but you will begin to start turning her down because she'll want it all the time where you just won't have the energy.
    I was worried this might be the case. I'm always the one making the first move and doing the work, so yeah she holds the power at the moment.
    From now on I'm not going to make the first move. She'll have to come to me and I will start building sexual tension right away.

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    Default Re: My girlfriend won't go down on me, ever.

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    do you have a hand? if yes, use it, cuz its gonna be a long couple weeks bro. disclosure, if she is doing the withholding sex, you have to consider the possibility that she is getting it somewhere else. i would recommend withholding tho
    I'm not worried about her cheating on me, she isn't the type.

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    Default Re: My girlfriend won't go down on me, ever.

    Quote Originally Posted by CriticalRap View Post
    I'm not worried about her cheating on me, she isn't the type.
    ive said that about every girl that has chaeated on me.
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