This is similar to my other thread but in a different context and what to try to understand why women stop responding vs what should I do (I'm already Freezing Her Out).
For more background see this thread: http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...g-tonight.html
But basics: Met HB8.5 on POF, quick n-close, texted a good bit, met up 3 days later, got strong IOIs (playing w/ her hair the whole time, fidgety, eyes fluttering, good eye contact and solid conversation, pretty much described exactly where she lived).
So here's the part of the convo and not sure if I came off needy, or the attraction went out like a light bulb, but I can't figure out why she stopped responding and just want to learn from it.
Starting off Friday (IOIs were from lunch this day)...
Me (5:01pm): 1 more hour till happy hour! Well, I hope :\
HB (4:48pm): Not I, I somehow got stuck with a 6 pm call but I did relocate to my home office
Me (5:16pm): Yeah, I'm not leaving just yet... Have a glass of wine for me before your call
Me (6:55pm): Finally.... beer in hand at [place]
HB (7:19pm): Nice, my mother talked my ear off after my conference call so im now pouring a glass of wine
Me (7:21pm): You could always drive up to [place i'm at]
.... no response... did that last text come off needy? I was hoping to show social proof, out at happy hours with friends, and if she did say she'd come, even better... wasn't a real invite or expecting it though...
Saturday -- I open her asking out plans for this night -- she brought up being free on the way back from lunch, she flakes (details in other post, could have been legit reason)
Still Sat, I re-open later on diff topic showing I don't care about the flake out... Context: I had told her before I was going kayaking this morning... she was at a viewing party for a college b-ball game, her team was doing well.
Me (2:41pm): Heading home from kayaking.. just saw the score. Are your shoes getting wet yet (reference to prior convo where she said her shoes are going to get wet from all the fans of the other team crying)
HB (2:48pm): Not yet but some are a little green with envy
... now I break the convo, was driving home anyway... on to new topic later in the eve....
Me (5:10pm): I'm going to be sore tomorrow, already feeling my shoulders are tight.
... no response, but tell me what you think... What I was going for: reference back to dhv activity and also see if I could get some type of response that I could play into something like (or she would suggest) a shoulder rub when she got back from her business trip... I may have just failed miserably though.
... still nothing, I knew I should keep NC but I'm not good at this yet! I knew she flew to Miami Sun morning (is there for business this whole week)...
Me: (4:41pm): Impressed you haven't teased me with a pic of beautiful Miami
...again, no response... was trying to be playful, may even get her to send me a pic of her at the pool (told me earlier this is why she was going down early sunday to start on her tan)...
So... My two questions so I can learn from this:
1. Did I screw up somewhere between the strong IOIs at lunch Friday and my texts? I feel my text game is really weak and am reading up on how to get better.
2. Why do women not respond (if i didn't screw up)... especially since she almost always has been responding in an hour or so or less.