Yo, so I've been using okcupid for a little over a month now and every girl I've chatted with became really interested in me. But whenever I try to transition out from snail mail on the site I keep getting similar messages from girls. Here's one from a girl I have particular interest in:
"Hey sorry I haven't responded. I've been online, but I really haven't been responding to anyone. And yeah I guess we can text, but as friends. I want to let you know that before I give you my number so you don't waste your time with me trying to get something else. I hope you don't think I'm being mean.I just want to be honest with you so you don't waste your time with me. You're a nice guy and I don't want to do that to you."
I'm just at a crossroad now, I don't know if I should go along or just move on to the next girl. I froze her out for now, but I want to try something. Can anyone suggest a next form of action?