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    Default How long before throwing in the towel?

    So when you guys meet a HB and things don't work out right away I would suggest waiting a month or two and attempting something again before throwing in the towel. I have made the mistake of waiting too long after things didn't work out and it created a bit of awkwardness.

    The reason I suggest this is because I just got way farther the second time I hit up this HB9 than when I hit her up the first time. The first time I texted her 7 times with no reply any time. This time my first text got a reply and we were totally jiving but she next-ed me again because I choked on my phone call to her. This is the same problem I had last time with her! Phone game is so hard I hope it gets easier talking to women. Texting is getting easier but not phone game.

    The reason why I think this is a good idea is because in a month or two she will have forgotten where you screwed up and what emotions she felt. By waiting a month or two and giving another go might work is because it is like you are being given a second chance and a fresh start. Just incorporate some of the material she may have displayed earlier and build on that.

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    Default Re: How long before throwing in the towel?

    It sounds like you are suffering from a severe case of oneitis right now. You are obsessing over this girl for far too long, and it is clear that you messed up with her.

    I do like the idea of giving time for her to forget though. It's a good way to cover up your tracks. However, you can't obsess over the same girl for so many months. Try to maintain the mentality that there are way more women out there, it will help your game a lot.

    As for your confidence, you lost trust in yourself, thus you betrayed yourself. You gotta learn to be able to just go with it instead of grappling with yourself for a decision. You can't plan into the future, and you can't try to strategize. Just go with the flow, and be natural.

    Lastly, to answer the question of the thread, throw in the towel now on her. If she picks it back up for you, so what? She's just another waterboy in the endless supply of them.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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