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    Default Help! Hot girl added me on FB. How to initiate conversation.

    On a dating profile of mine that I don't check often, I posted for girls just to add me on FB.

    A hot girl added me on FB and I'm thinking of how I can initiate a conversation with her.

    Here are a scenarios I worked out in my head and my thoughts on them. Please give feedback or advice.

    Me: "Hey, thanks for the add! How are you?"

    --I have sent this to girls before actually learning to 'play the game'. Needless to say it hasn't worked out well. So I ended up shying away from this one. I didn't want to lower my value by allowing her to think she was blessing me with her presence--

    Me: "Do you always add random people on FB?"

    --as of now, this is what I'm leaning towards but I'm still not sure. How effective are negs online? In person, after the girl reacts, you will always have a chance to respond, maybe with a compliment. But online, she has the option to walk away at anytime with you never getting the chance to recover and gain her interest.

    On top of that, I kind of indirectly told this girl to add me on FB through my dating profile. I don't know what she'll think if I send her this message--

    If this isn't ok, please provide examples of something I can use. Thanks in advance

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    Default Re: Help! Hot girl added me on FB. How to initiate conversation.

    none of those imo

    call her out on not saying hi when she added you

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    Default Re: Help! Hot girl added me on FB. How to initiate conversation.

    "do you usually add people on FB without saying hi?"

    How's that? My problem with calling girls out is that it can make you sound needy. I guess since I'm just opening, this one isn't too bad. Now if for some reason she suddenly ignores me for days at a time, I'm not sure this would work. Like I said, I don't want to sound needy. How soon do I send? She added me at 11:30 pm my time - it is now 2 am. Just wait until tomorrow?

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    Default Re: Help! Hot girl added me on FB. How to initiate conversation.

    I'm not experienced with facebook game at all (Never really done it cause I don't believe in gaming on facebook), but none of those for sure. The 1st one definitely not, and the 2nd seems a bit like you got hurt when she didn't say hi. Better option than the 2nd, but still not a good one imo.

    I'd probably go with something like "Well, well. Have we met? You look very familiar ; )"

    Make her think you've seen her around before, even though you haven't.

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    Default Re: Help! Hot girl added me on FB. How to initiate conversation.

    given that she is indeed hot, putting a straight away shows alot of interest, and no doubt alot of the other guys would do that too

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    Default Re: Help! Hot girl added me on FB. How to initiate conversation.

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    given that she is indeed hot, putting a straight away shows alot of interest, and no doubt alot of the other guys would do that too
    I like this but I think too much time has passed for a wink. Its 2:00 am my time so I'm not going to message her until tomorrow. I definitely would have used this had I thought about it when I accepted the request.

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    Default Re: Help! Hot girl added me on FB. How to initiate conversation.

    Quote Originally Posted by ED11356 View Post
    I'm not experienced with facebook game at all (Never really done it cause I don't believe in gaming on facebook), but none of those for sure. The 1st one definitely not, and the 2nd seems a bit like you got hurt when she didn't say hi. Better option than the 2nd, but still not a good one imo.

    I'd probably go with something like "Well, well. Have we met? You look very familiar ; )"

    Make her think you've seen her around before, even though you haven't.
    I like that one too. thanks for the help.

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    Default Re: Help! Hot girl added me on FB. How to initiate conversation.

    Alright. Just finished up my first convo with this girl. Looks like it went well but it's too soon to tell.

    Me: "Well, you look familiar (; "

    Her: "lol. Hi! (:"

    "Um Always"

    "oops"


    (clearly she sent me the wrong message)

    Me: "oh yes. That awkward moment when you send a message to the wrong person."

    "lol. Hi! by the way"

    Her: "lol yea it was to my little sister. Whats up"

    Me: "oh I see. Ha ha, idk you tell me. Do you 'always' add people on FB without telling then hello? (; "


    (used a the "um always" message against her)

    Her: "lol. Nope! I dont usually add people"

    Me: "lol. Your breaking all the rules."


    (or I could have said "well I'm glad you did (; " but I didn't have time to consult with the forum so I just took a chance. I was afraid it might be too early to start complimenting her.)

    Her: "ha ha. Your funny"

    (didn't know if this was good or bad and didn't know what to send so I just ended the convo there. Once again I wish I had time to consult with the forum before my next message but I was busy at work.)

    Me: " I've got to go. Maybe we can chat again sometime "

    Her: no reply


    (Looking back, Im not sure this was the right time to end it. I hope she doesn't think she turned me off. If that's the case, she may not try to initiate the next conversation out of fear of creeping me out. Or maybe I'm over analyzing. I like to leave room for the girl to initate conversations that way I don't look like she is the "prize".)

    Any feedback would be nice fellas. Did I play it right? What could I have done differently? Also, what are some good closing statements to spark interest?


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