On a dating profile of mine that I don't check often, I posted for girls just to add me on FB.
A hot girl added me on FB and I'm thinking of how I can initiate a conversation with her.
Here are a scenarios I worked out in my head and my thoughts on them. Please give feedback or advice.
Me: "Hey, thanks for the add! How are you?"
--I have sent this to girls before actually learning to 'play the game'. Needless to say it hasn't worked out well. So I ended up shying away from this one. I didn't want to lower my value by allowing her to think she was blessing me with her presence--
Me: "Do you always add random people on FB?"
--as of now, this is what I'm leaning towards but I'm still not sure. How effective are negs online? In person, after the girl reacts, you will always have a chance to respond, maybe with a compliment. But online, she has the option to walk away at anytime with you never getting the chance to recover and gain her interest.
On top of that, I kind of indirectly told this girl to add me on FB through my dating profile. I don't know what she'll think if I send her this message--
If this isn't ok, please provide examples of something I can use. Thanks in advance