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Thread: Seduction tactic...is changing up "personality" seductive?

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    Default Seduction tactic...is changing up "personality" seductive?

    I believe there is a PUA term for this ( re-imaging?) in which you display a different side of you from what you usually protray.

    For instance lets say you are talking to an HB, seeing her, calling/texting and you always come off as the fun , funny, optimistic happy guy in which you do a lot of the talking. Would it be seductive to surprise this person by showing another side that is completely contradictory to this....show a mysterious streak of silence or short responses, play the reclusive mysterious person that isnt so forthcoming with everything on your mind, maybe even show a little bit of a temper or mean streak,

    From what I read in a non-PUA book, the purpose of this is to show you are a dynamic person ( there is more to you than what she just thinks of you) ....people crave and get excited by novelty and the predictable is dull........ BUT.....

    On the flipside.....what if there is an HB you are seeing that is pretty much the type that likes nice guys who are funny.....would a mean or sad disposition out of nowhere freak her out? Question whether this new side is his "real side" and the rest is a cover?

    We are all complex people, so we all have different sides to us ( some are just more chill than others and some tend to be more tempermental), but my question is whether this could potentially scare someone off early on ( keep in mind that the seduction level on this HB is better than average to where she shows definite interest but not astronomical to the point where I have her wrapped around my finger).

    Would like to hear your guys thoughts, theories, and experiences ( good and bad) with this type of thing.

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    Default Re: Seduction tactic...is changing up "personality" seductive?

    I wouldn't recommend coming off as being one type of person & then all of a sudden you're totally different.

    This would scream "In-congruent". (and possibly mentally/emotionally unstable).

    Be who you really want to be & stick with it.


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    Default Re: Seduction tactic...is changing up "personality" seductive?

    I think I should clarify.... I meant to change it up on occasion, not a complete 180 all of the time. For instance 90% of the time I can respond to her as the fun excited person.... But 1 out of 15 or 20 times I'm can be distinctly different.

    I just think there is something to this because I have found it alluring when a girl seems innocent but shows she has a kinky side.... Or a girl who is generally fun and happy, you tend to want care and console her when she gets sad about something.... Or when a girl is nice but gets clearly upset at something, makes her seem less robotic/fake and more passionate ( nothing grosser than seeing a girl put in a plastic smile when she is clearly hurt or upset).

    But I hear what you are saying.... Something too drastic too soon would totally scare me off too. I agree in that I should be who I want to be /really am, but let's be real.... PeoPle always put their best foot forward initially to impress or seem more appealing ( when taken too far too soon also seems disingenuine and boring).

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    Default Re: Seduction tactic...is changing up "personality" seductive?

    Ahhhh... I think I get what you're asking now.

    I actually wrote a thread the other day that might fit what you're wondering...

    It's about how to get a girl to chase YOU / keep her chasing you.

    Check it out here.

    I describe how you should occasionally pull back & not give too much all the time, & stuff like that.


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    Default Re: Seduction tactic...is changing up "personality" seductive?

    Thanks for the link! Excellent topic and thread... And totally apropos to what I was wondering about. I guess it's not so much about "expressing" a different side, but to express that side when appropriate and in alpha/controlled way (but also occasionally showing passion that is not directed at an HB in a mean way, only in a disapproving way at the very most).

    I liked how you mentioned that the game must be played in a relationship at every stage.... I 100% agree because a lack of seduction kills all desire to want to be in a relationship. My best relationships have come from good communication coupled with making effort to keep the fire alive with unspoken tactics (like push/pull... Rewarding appealing behavior, etc).


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