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    Kinotespeaker is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Where to go from a "decent" but not great first date?

    I met this girl online and within about 4 days of messaging and eventually texting, we were on our first date. We went rock climbing; we both said we enjoyed it on our profiles and it seemed like a fun first date.

    During most of the time conversation was great, I noticed she laughs at everything anyone says, whether or not I said it. Conversation was the usual, where were from, what we do, family, etc. she was asking the questions a lot, so I felt like I wasn't interviewing her. I definitely tried to keep the things I said interesting statements. After climbing I asked her to go get a very casual dinner on the spot she agreed, but only got a shake, I ordered food. Teased her on that. After I was done eating we chatted for maybe another 15mins before she said she had to go.


    As we were leaving I gave her a hug and she mentioned we should go rock climbing again. I had no idea how to take this bc it was great she suggested hanging out again, but I didn't like that it was for climbing again. I'm not sure if she wants a climbing buddy or to eventually get somewhere. Throughout the whole date I only hugged her when we first met and when we left. It's been 24 hrs no text from her, what should I do?


    Do I send her a text or wait another day?
    When I ask for a 2nd date do I plan another climbing trip or something more directly showing her I want to date?
    Should I have progressed further physically on the first date? (For future reference)
    How many dates before I try to get her to my place or her place alone?


    Incase anyone was wondering climbing was a great first date assuming the girl doesn't seem too prissy. It was fun, shows off both people's body's, and it relieves the pressure of always having something to say since there's a lot of things going on around you. I'd say the only thing it lacks is your both sweaty and there are other people around but it's not too likely you'll get a girl alone on the first date if you met through the Internet anyways.

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    Kinotespeaker is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Where to go from a "decent" but not great first date?

    Seriously need help on this one bc I fear the clock is ticking. Even if its obvious, rest assured I have no idea where to go.

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    Default Re: Where to go from a "decent" but not great first date?

    She wants a second date - the details of it don't matter too much. Text her to set it up. However, since you're not into going rock climbing again, you can just text her and say that you have something planned for whatever day but won't tell her because you'll ruin the surprise. Just give her the day, then give her the exact time. Tell her where to meet you, but not where you're going. I think you get it
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Where to go from a "decent" but not great first date?

    Quote Originally Posted by Vicodin24 View Post
    She wants a second date - the details of it don't matter too much. Text her to set it up. However, since you're not into going rock climbing again, you can just text her and say that you have something planned for whatever day but won't tell her because you'll ruin the surprise. Just give her the day, then give her the exact time. Tell her where to meet you, but not where you're going. I think you get it


    Thanks man, I am definitely one to over analyze things, so that helps. However, being so new to the game, should I text her conversationally to build comfort for next couple days then invite her somewhere? I'm thinking at first I don't want to be constantly inviting her to do something every day, at least not until after we've gotten into making out and I know for a fact she's comfortable being with me in public and private.


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