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Thread: Valentines not on the 14th

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    Default Valentines not on the 14th

    New back into the game and this is the first real good one so far...

    Okay, I've been working an HB8 I met online over the phone and by text for that past 7 days.

    I tried to get her out and to meet tomorrow night the 14th, saying...

    Me: How romantical (sic) would THAT be? Meeting on the 14th?,
    Her: Sorry, but I teach on Thursday nights. We can get together this weekend... (this is not an excuse and confirmed true). I said Me: Thank goodness, I thought you might be a hopeless romantic! That'll save me shopping for roses, chocolates, 4lbs of cinnamon heart candies and sexy lingerie!
    Her: Oh a I'm romantic, I just think there should be roses, chocolate and sexy lingerie everyday!
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    So we're meeting for dinner on Saturday. I'm NOT going to give in and bring this woman everything she wants on a first date, so I'm thinking that I might bring along a $15 bouquet of flowers, a chocolate bar, and... here's the twist I was going to pick up a sexy pair of men's underwear for myself, wrap them up and let her open them. When she realizes what she has opened I would take graciously take them from her, and thank her. I would explain that there was no way I could have safely guessed what size she was, so I picked out something sexy for myself... "because I knew how important sexy lingerie was to her!"

    Funny? Cute? Preparing her for escalation? Corny?

    Or do I just tell her I bought sexy hitch for myself and am currently wearing it?

    Or am I just over-working this?!?

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    Default Re: Valentines not on the 14th

    I like how you texted her, sounds mature the way you both texted.. Anyways, I wouldn't even recommend bringing her anything at all its like a test to see if you would actually bring it.

    What I would do though, is bring a plastic rose, (You know the ones you put in the house to decorate) and give only one, she's probably going to ask why it isn't real or what not. You can add ''Since an actual rose would of died and you'd throw it away, I got you one you can actually keep to remember.'' Or something along the lines.

    And to answer you're question. Yes you're over working it, don't try too hard, man. Laaaay baaack.

    Go on youtube and check out how to make a rose out of a paper sheet, make one at the table and give it to her. Its clever, not many people do it and you spend your time doing it. She looks playful from the way she texts.

    Anyways Good luck

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    Default Re: Valentines not on the 14th

    me being me i would've skipped any items for her, but this sexy lingerie idea is pretty unique

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    Default Re: Valentines not on the 14th

    Bring the chocolate bar and the lingerie, but don't justify the lingerie to her.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Valentines not on the 14th

    Why not cook dinner with her instead of going to dinner? IMO It's more fun, entertaining and can be a bonding experience if you guys have enough fun.

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    Default Re: Valentines not on the 14th

    I usually save dinner at my place for #3 or #4. Also she doesn't drive and it would be a $20 cab ride for her... a bit too much for a first date, I think.

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    Default Re: Valentines not on the 14th

    Started a new thread as my follow up has nothing to do with my original post, but on topic...

    Dinner tonight turned into brunch earlier today. I did the flower (real), gave her a chocolate bar ($1.25) and told her about the men's sexy underwear I bought for myself while I was debating buying some for her. And that I was currently wearing it and how nice it felt! She thought this was all quite cute!

    Thank you to those commented.


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