So now that I have been getting numbers frequently and getting past my aa to approach a HB9 I wanted to hear what you guys think of preventing flaking. This seems to be a big thing right now with my rotation. Getting them to respond is also a challenge but I am trying to focus on how to prevent flaking while I get better at texting.
If you sense a girl about to flake should you eject first and then re-initiate later? I'm curious because building attraction is something very hard to do over text and was wondering if you guys think preventing flaking could be resolved by non-neediness and alpha male attitude?
My thoughts on this are to build comfort first. I mean to get a girl to consistently communicate with me I think would be the best way to prevent flaking. I know we think to go for the meet up right away but I have been encountering a fair amount of resistance and girls getting creeped out by this type of aggression as they perceive.
Maybe it's better to get to know her first then after a while after developing good rapport and comfort to go for the meet up since going for the meet up right away keeps causing these girls to flake on me.