I've been seeing a girl for about three months, we're sleeping together and exclusive.
She never initiates texts, takes days to reply to one, and will never commit to a plan until the last minute. When we do get together though, it's been really good although she's acts a bit like a guy (leaves first thing in the morning)
I'm starting to feel drained from the effort I'm putting in and having to think about what I should say. Over time I feel like she has pulled further and further away. I haven't seen her for a week and a half and last weekend she politely declined my invitation saying that she was too busy but she made a vague suggestion that we meet up this weekend. So I held back and didn't send her anything for five days hoping that she might initiate a text. Nothing. I texted her today and she replied but fairly short messages.
Should I just forget this girl and move on? It seems likely that unless I keep initiating we'll catch up or that she'll even send a text.
How should I deal with this? Is there something I can do to turn the tables?