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    Default how can I make her initiate

    I've been seeing a girl for about three months, we're sleeping together and exclusive.

    She never initiates texts, takes days to reply to one, and will never commit to a plan until the last minute. When we do get together though, it's been really good although she's acts a bit like a guy (leaves first thing in the morning)

    I'm starting to feel drained from the effort I'm putting in and having to think about what I should say. Over time I feel like she has pulled further and further away. I haven't seen her for a week and a half and last weekend she politely declined my invitation saying that she was too busy but she made a vague suggestion that we meet up this weekend. So I held back and didn't send her anything for five days hoping that she might initiate a text. Nothing. I texted her today and she replied but fairly short messages.

    Should I just forget this girl and move on? It seems likely that unless I keep initiating we'll catch up or that she'll even send a text.

    How should I deal with this? Is there something I can do to turn the tables?

    Taa

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    Default Re: how can I make her initiate

    What sort of texts are you sending her?

    If it's anything the lines of "Hey, how are you?"
    or
    "Yo, what's up?"
    or
    "How's your day?".... then it's understandable that you might be having trouble getting her to reply consistently.

    Check out this thread for a more detailed breakdown on texting.


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    Default Re: how can I make her initiate

    It's been two weeks since you posted the thread, how have things proceeded since then; better or worse?

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    Default Re: how can I make her initiate

    1. She sleeps with you.
    2. Only makes last minute plans.
    3. Doesn't text you.

    For some guys, just just defined the perfect FB.

    At any rate, what is it that you are trying to accomplish with her. Just getting her to text you??

    What if she doesn't like green eggs and ham. Would you make her eat them, Sam I Am??
    - CR

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    Default Re: how can I make her initiate

    I am curious about what happen also
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