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    Default Re: Advice on where to go next

    I just want to say it is a relief to get on the forum and continue to see that everyone has the same problems with women and I'm not the only one haha. We are all in this together! You are doing great!! It's hard to know exactly what will work on some girls and what won't. All we can do is maximize our chances. Keep it up man don't get discouraged.

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    Default Re: Advice on where to go next

    Good, you have to be willing to walk away if she is not willing to join you in your reality.
    I want to thank you for helping me in an odd sort of way. Yesterday when I wrote "You are an alpha male! Tell her what you are looking for. If she doesn't like it she will lose interest and you can focus on women that want what you want." I was telling you something that I needed to hear as well. I was struggling with getting the courage to bring my new GF into my reality. After i wrote that i looked at it and thought "good advice". I then went and told her what i needed to tell her and it went better than I could have dreamed. My worries were for nothing!
    Thanks and good luck!

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    Default Re: Advice on where to go next

    So she contacted me back saying of course I'm full of energy, and passion, I'm not sure what you are trying to imply, state, question, etc.

    So I told her that : I know that she knows that I know that she knows exactly what I mean.

    Enough of these girls lol

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    Default Re: Advice on where to go next

    So last final question. When should I contact this girl about finding out if we are gonna meet monday or tuesday. I'd like to know so I can make plans.

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    Default Re: Advice on where to go next

    Text or call her Monday. Not sure what you had in mind for Tuesday but frame it like you are going to do whatever it is and she is still invited to come along if she likes. This way it does not have the pressure on her that a date would. It's casual and non threatening.

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    Default Re: Advice on where to go next

    I actually think she would prefer a date. It's funny this is like a workout log but rather a log geared toward this one chick.

    I had sent her a message saying "anyways hope you have a good trip and hope to see you when you get back"

    I got back "I'm only gone for the weekend" sounded promising.

    I had told her before I don't need text buddies and to contact me when she gets back so a part of her could just be like well you said not to text you so I'm not. But as I started to want to make plans it would be nice to know when she gets back. Rather than being pressuring all I asked today is if she knew when she was getting back. (so I knew if to make plans tomorrow)

    No response.....its very interesting

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    Default Re: Advice on where to go next

    Check it out man. You are the prize, when she fists into your schedule y'all will go out. Not the other way around. It may take longer but the sooner you set the frame of "you are chasing ME" the better. If you keep messaging her for the future you will telegraph too much interest. I think (and this is just my speculation) that you are just TRYING to not care right now. They can smell that. You have to really not care. I find that if I think about a girl more than twice a day I probably am caring too much and will end up screwing it up because I telegraph it.

    "Be desireless, be excellent, be gone" -tao of steve

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    Default Re: Advice on where to go next

    I do care but I've been very alpha to her. I told her for a month I didn't wanna even meet. I called her out on our dates, I called her out texting. She wasn't even sure how excited I was, and I gave attention and sometimes didn't. I told her .

    I just wanna know when she is free. She knows I work a lot and have friends and am busy.


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