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    Default jealousy with the girl

    back story first. girl is roomates with guy and gf and they are all really good friends. ok now if you were dating a girl and she has told you if she wasnt with you she would this one guy lets call him eli. and she hung out with him almost every day and he spent the night over( not in the same bed) and they talked and everthing a lot wouldnt you be jealous? although she says that is stupid reasons to be jealous because she is with you? just some opinions on the matter would be nice. this happpened with my ex and i was just thinking of it
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    Default Re: jealousy with the girl

    Lol, this doesn't make much sense. Try to reword it.

    But if I understand correctly, that's a reason to be jealous. However, if it was your ex you should just get over it and move on!
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: jealousy with the girl

    I'm gonna go all Dr. Phil here for a second - of the many aspects of a relationship, mutual respect and compromise are a must. You can't avoid compromise nor can you have a healthy relationship without respect.

    With that said, if your girl was to have guys sleeping over and that made you uncomfortable, there's no reason for you to not call her out on it and work to fix it. It's not even an insecurity thing - it's a simple question of whether or not she respects you enough to be willing to compromise on that aspect.

    So, yes, it's normal to be jealous, but not cool to blow up in her face about it

    Further justification - how would she feel if the tables were flipped? Assuming she said she wouldn't care, call her on her bluff and you'll see her go from laid back to "overly attached girlfriend"
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: jealousy with the girl

    she could care less she really believes that if you are with someone it shouldnt matter what they do as long a they dont cheat. she said she wouldnt even care if i was getting a message from another girl. plus every time she catches herself acting to much like a girly girl with me she gets really guarded
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