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Thread: FB Messaging HB9 Need help!

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    Default FB Messaging HB9 Need help!

    Ok so here's the background story. There was this girl I met at the bar who I held eye contact with for 2-3 long seconds before i looked away(I know I shouldn't have done this but i panicked lol). Later on in the night she stood next to me while i was talking to two people I knew but weren't great friends with. The two of them were being dumb and both seemed to try to compete for her by doing things like asking her to take a sip of there beer and stuff without even introducing themselves or getting her name lol. So I asked the girl if she went to (My college) and she said yes. Then I started talking to her about some things but it was really loud and crowded in the bar. people started walking in between us and eventually we somehow got seperated by like 10 people. So i just went back to talking with my friends. The part where i farked up was when another HB7 started talking to me and she started grinding on me and stuff. I was really drunk and i had a feeling the HB9 was attracted to me but i couldn't tell. My friend said HB9 was constantly looking back at me, and i'm pretty sure she saw the HB7 grinding on me. I had to get away from HB7 so i told her i had to go to the bathroom and just walked away. I was afraid to approach HB9 because I was so sure she saw me with the other girl. I did it anyway and asked her for her fb instead of her number so i might be able to try to fix things later and i knew there was a low chance of her denying me adding her on fb. There was another problem though, basically her ugly friend saw me get HB9's fb and looked angry at me because she wasn't getting any attention. I wanted to try to defuse the situation a bit and introduced myself to the ugly friend to try to win her over. I was genuinly being nice to her but she was just making weird faces and seemed really annoyed by me so i just left the situation because there was no hope for me to fix it. So i added her the next night and she accepted within 5 minutes. I inboxed her and this is how the conversation is going. I'm not sure where to go next, i want to invite this girl on a school ski trip coming up but I'm not sure how or when to bring it up. This is how the conversation goes

    11:15
    me:
    Hey it was nice meeting u the other night u seem like a really cool person, i meant to ask u what part of (state) ur from but i could barely hear anything it was so loud in there

    11:21 pm
    HB:
    Hey! Same to you and (city) it's like near (another city)

    11:24pm
    me:
    O ok is that anywhere near (certain lake) if u no where that is

    11:34 pm
    HB:
    No idea!

    11:44am
    me:
    o ok lol i think its in (city), do you know where that is? I'm asking because my grandpa and my best friend both have lake houses up there and i go up every summer
    Today

    next day(she didnt read till next day i could see on fb)
    1:54pm
    hb:
    yeahhh! I know where that is its close to me

    me:
    2:20
    oh really, small world haha I'll hyu next time i go back! do you wakeboard/waterski?

    no response yet?
    I'm having a hard time reading her lol. I know there was attraction built at first but i'm not sure if i lost it. my next plan is whether she says yes or no, im going to ask if she snow skis. Then whether she says yes or no im going to ask her if she wants to come on the ski trip with me. Please let me know if you think this is a good idea at all. Also let me know where i made mistakes and what else i could do to improve. Thanks, any help is greatly appreciated!

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    Default Re: FB Messaging HB9 Need help!

    Your texts are boring and don't elicit response.

    For example:

    "Hey it was nice meeting u the other night u seem like a really cool person, i meant to ask u what part of (state) ur from but i could barely hear anything it was so loud in there"

    Instead say this: "You are from the city Redneck, right? Or did I get that wrong?" << playful way of asking where she is from. She will respond.

    Also, please don't take this the wrong way (I mean this to be constructive), but your style of talking is kind of girly. Would Scarface say "oh really, small world haha" ?? << I'm not saying to be scarface, but you have to speak with a little more authority if you expect to pull this girl into your world.

    "I'll hyu next time i go back! do you wakeboard/waterski?" << I have no idea what the hell "hyu" means, but I assume it means you will talk to her at some future point. Instead, again, be a little more agressive. Like "I'm headed back in a few weeks I think. If you're nice, I'll take you with me and teach you how to water-ski."
    - CR

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    Default Re: FB Messaging HB9 Need help!

    i'm pretty sure it's Hit You Up, ie i'll contact you

    but yeah if that's you being you saying HYU (maybe abbreviate it to women) then don't stop saying it, just make sure people know what you're saying


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