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    Default Confused about something when texting

    I read somewhere: "Once you figure the happy time to text this girl, text her every day during the same time. Itíll make her expect your texts and her anticipation for your texts everyday will make her like you more."

    Then I heard someone say: Don't be predictable and don't do stuff like texting her always at the same time.

    So, which one is it? Or do both have merits?

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    Default Re: Confused about something

    1. Ignore the advice - there are no such "rules".

    2. Generally, girls don't like predictability like that until you are in a relationship.

    3. Generally, if you do something like that, you are immediately screaming "i'm clingy and i want a relationship" << which is why they like it when you are in a relationship and MAY not like it when you aren't.

    4. That being said, there is probably a small minority of girls that would like you to be romantic from day one. But be warned, if you get one like this, you better watch out because your might get "bitch-trained" by her very quickly. In other words, the girl will look at you and sub-consciously think "i bet i could get this guy to do anything for me." << not a rule, but a very real possibility

    IF you are going to have a rule like this, then place it on her (by making it a game or something) and say 'you have to send me a text each day at 9:37am and tell me that you love me. Each day you do this, you get 1 star. 5 stars = a hug, 10 stars = a kiss, and 15 stars = letting you cook me dinner.'
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    Default Re: Confused about something when texting

    I'd say the best of both worlds would be to text her at the same time, but not every single day. You still build up anticipation but you avoid total predictability.

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    Default Re: Confused about something when texting

    Texting can make or break your chances with a girl.

    One key is definitely being unpredictable with your response time. (As mentioned above by the previous replies)

    Another is to keep texting light & fun as much as possible.
    Don't use it to have "conversations" if you can avoid it.

    Use it for flirting, building anticipation, attraction & setting up a get-together. (Or to re-connect with someone you haven't talked to in a while.)

    Don't stress about "the right time" to send them....
    The right time is when it's convenient for YOU.

    Everyone gets busy during the day & can't reply instantly. So a girl isn't gonna get pissed because you didn't drop everything to answer her.
    Just don't ALWAYS make her wait for too long though.. because that's just as bad as always responding immediately. (She'll get tired of waiting all the time & give up on you.)

    Just mix it up.


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