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Thread: Advice on how to respond to this

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    Default Advice on how to respond to this

    My opener: Do you have a job?

    I'm looking for a woman who can cook and pay the bills while I spend all day playing video games. It helps that you enjoy cooking.

    I like bacon. Keep that in mind.


    Her response:

    I think I not only meet but exceed your qualifications. I only ask two things in return.

    1 - You would be responsible for opening all jars, destroying all spiders and/or other unwelcome house guests, and giving me compliments on a daily basis such as I look pretty and my bacon tastes better than any other bacon in the whole world.

    2 - In the summer I will need you to take occasional breaks from the video games to bring me drinks while I lay out by our pool.

    If you're interested in the position, we should set up an interview.



    So i have a general idea that she is qualifying to me and also playing along with this, but cant seem to know or have an idea on how to respond to this any thoughts? or ag eneral rule for this type or responses?

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    Default Re: Advice on how to respond to this

    She sounds clearly interested so I wouldn't worry too much, just continue playing along and talk about how her terms and conditions are largely reasonable but you would like to meet to discuss them in further detail.

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    Default Re: Advice on how to respond to this

    My immediate response would be: "You can't lay out by the pool unless you are naked. Anyway, I can't swim. So if you fall in the water, I'll have to just leave you there. Unless you're naked, in which case I guess I'd figure out a way to drag your ass out. Maybe. Maybe not. Hell I don't know."

    Anyway, based on what you wrote, you don't even have to respond or continue to role play, but make sure that once you have this slight rapport, start focusing on bringing her more into your world. From this point, you have to start building attraction and spending too long just being funny together can slow that process. Depends on your time constraints I guess.

    Always be moving towards a goal. In my response above, my goal is to 1) imply that i like naked women in a very funny non-threatening way, 2) let her know i can save her if i chose to, and 3) seem interested but uninterested (abundance theory). All in a single line.

    Don't worry about getting lines right because you will always mess them up (well most of the time). Just focus on keeping a vibe going and imagining that you have a harem of women waiting at home whether this one bites or not.
    - CR

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    Default Re: Advice on how to respond to this

    Conversation goes on like this:

    Me: There's only one way to find out...

    Her: Yes. Yes there is only one way.

    Me: Well, if you're not a serial internet stalker,

    I would be comfortable with exchanging digits with you; then we can communicate more quickly and efficiently and maybe you can talk to me into asking you out so you discover for yourself whether I want the position or not... (used from one of T-Mal number closing post on forum)


    Her: Stalker is such an ugly word, don't you think? I prefer...involuntary girlfriend.

    I'll give you my digits, but let's be real. I don't have to talk you into asking me out. I already know you want to. I'm cute and delightful.

    555-555-5555

    Oh, and I'm Mary, by the way.

    So she gives me her number that's great! and I know I'm not supposed to worry about the lines and all, but just need some guidance on how this conversation went and how to response cause this girl seems to get me and sh1t testing me and its throwing me off ahah.

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    Default Re: Advice on how to respond to this

    okay so based on the Great advices i wrote her back with this:

    I just had to make sure. I'll ask you out. Maybe. Maybe not. I don't know. Anyways as long as you're not following me back home, it's all good.

    555-555-5555

    Sam


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