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    Question Is she losing interest?!

    So there is this girl I've known for years, but just recently (3-4 weeks ago) we started texting very flirty. Eventually our texts lead to us hanging out and we've hooked up 3 times (different days). She seemed very interested the first week, and would text me often and we'd text for almost the whole day. Much after that the texting was evenly split amongst us(she would initiate the texting sometimes, and other times I would). But now I am always initiating the texting and she always seems "busy" when I do, and she doesn't respond as immediate as she did a few weeks ago. Now I try not to text her often maybe every other 2 days, typically a quick text to see what she's up to and if she can hang sometime soon. she'll say she's busy or can only be around for a little.

    -Is this an Indication that she is losing interest in me, if so what should I do?

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    Default Re: Is she losing interest?!

    Why do u care? why are u stuck on one girl go game others. If she reinitiates contact good if not fuck her
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    Default Re: Is she losing interest?!

    Quote Originally Posted by GucciNobou View Post
    So there is this girl I've known for years, but just recently (3-4 weeks ago) we started texting very flirty. Eventually our texts lead to us hanging out and we've hooked up 3 times (different days). She seemed very interested the first week, and would text me often and we'd text for almost the whole day. Much after that the texting was evenly split amongst us(she would initiate the texting sometimes, and other times I would). But now I am always initiating the texting and she always seems "busy" when I do, and she doesn't respond as immediate as she did a few weeks ago. Now I try not to text her often maybe every other 2 days, typically a quick text to see what she's up to and if she can hang sometime soon. she'll say she's busy or can only be around for a little.

    -Is this an Indication that she is losing interest in me, if so what should I do?
    By the sounds of it, yes, she's losing interest in you. You drug things out too long and thus it collapsed. Although texting time between you was fairly good, I suspect that you may have not changed your availability to her as well. You're coming off as a bit clingy just by sending that short little message every two days.

    Your best bet right now is to give her a full out cold shoulder. Don't text her for about three or four days. If she doesn't respond by then, give her the "let's be friends speech".
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Is she losing interest?!

    Yup both these guys have it right man. Are you looking for a relationship with her? Why do you keep talking to her. Let her come to you, especially if you have already hooked up 3 times. Be unavailable and slightly disinterested...then shell be the one asking her friends why you barely respond...not you! If you do it right shell stick around wondering why she doesn't have a hold on you.

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    Default Re: Is she losing interest?!

    Okay, thanks for the advice I greatly appreciate it. Only issue is I sort of grew feelings for this chick and we were practically dating. Its been 4 days and still no contact, is there anything I can text her to build the interest up again, or anything I can do when I see her in person again to have her regain interest.

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    Default Re: Is she losing interest?!

    Quote Originally Posted by GucciNobou View Post
    Okay, thanks for the advice I greatly appreciate it. Only issue is I sort of grew feelings for this chick and we were practically dating. Its been 4 days and still no contact, is there anything I can text her to build the interest up again, or anything I can do when I see her in person again to have her regain interest.
    just have fun man, stop worrying about it and just have fun with other people, if she sees you and notices great, if not, it doesn't matter. You're awesome and if anyone thinks otherwise, fark them

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    Default Re: Is she losing interest?!

    Very helpful advise. Thank you all for that

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    Default Re: Is she losing interest?!

    I took the advice you guys gave me and stoped contacting this girl and started talking to others. We hadn't spoken or seen each other for 3 weeks, but just recently she was the first to initiate contact by texting me about this party she was hosting, which I was coincidentally on my way to. So I told her I was planning on attending for a little bit. When I got there, I gave her a hug and kept things natural. I also made sure to keep my distance and not stare at her and display that I miss her. Long story short, things went smoothly and she showed signs of interest again.

    How should I go about texting her now, and getting us to hang out again?

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    Default Re: Is she losing interest?!

    Good man!!! Glad its working out for you. I would try to see her casually again in a group setting. Even better let her see you with another girl. Dont be douchey about it, keep it classy but bring another girl around (preferably as hot or hotter) but its ok either way girls get jealous of everything. If she is showing ioi's she might start texting you again in which case be flirty but a bit distant until you get enough then close on it as if you were attracting her again for the first time. Thats what I would do anyways. Hope this helps!!!


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