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    Default Facebook Dilemma

    So through a little bit of facebook stalking this week while bored at work, I found out a girl that I met a bar about 2 months ago is going to be in the same city I am in this weekend. How do i reopen this without seeming weird? (We are both from the same town -- where I met her -- but currently live in other places.)

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    Met her in December by walking up to her and saying I wanted to meet her and she should come hang out with me and my friends which she did for a little. It was near closing time, so while everyone was leaving I got her number.

    She texts me a few weeks later out of nowhere, we talk for a little, but i dont try to take it anywhere cuz were in different cities.

    I text her happy valentines day because i have a tradition where i text every hot girl in my phonebook happy valentines day and she responds favorably.

    two weeks ago she posts a status on facebook, and i facebook chat her about it, it goes well, shes responsive, but its a short friendly conversation.

    this week I find out were gonna be in the same city. trying to figure out how to contact her without making it seem weird that I knew we were gonna be in the same city. im really into this chick, which i think is making me over think it. your thoughts?

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    Default Re: Facebook Dilemma

    You could accuse her of stalking you while mentioning you will be in the same city. Gauge her response then escalate.

    Ex: "Are you kidding me? Who gave you my schedule? Probably have my address to huh :P"

    Just off the top of my head.
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    Default Re: Facebook Dilemma

    The good part is, she doesn't know that you know this. The idea is to make it seem like it's a coincidence. Talk to her a little, Ideally not through Facebook, and ask if shes doing something within the time frame that she'll be in the city. Work it bro, it's easy since you've already established communication.
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    Default Re: Facebook Dilemma

    i feel like any contact with her is just gonna reveal that I know shes gonna be there since I dont really have a reason to contact her other than that

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    Default Re: Facebook Dilemma

    Just remember, You'll never know if you don't try. And if you don't try you have no chance, at least this way there's a shot. You know what I mean?
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    Default Re: Facebook Dilemma

    True bro...just gotta suck it up. Here are 3 options I've come up with:

    Option 1: "I think the facebook gods want me to contact you" and she'll say "why" and I'll go from there. Its a little weird, but im pretty sure she was into me, it was just awhile ago since we talked, which was me initiating contact regarding something she posted on facebook, so im hesitant to make it seem like im responding to her every move on facebook. But it is really coincidental we are gonna be in the same city, so i have to say something.

    Option 2: Post a status about me going to this city. She'll definitely see it, but will she contact me? I'm not sure. She did before out of nowhere, but who knows? leaves it up to chance.

    Option 3: Text her tomorrow night while im there and say something like "im in [city] whats there to do around here?" this place is like two hours away from where she goes to school, so its reasonable to assume shes been there before and it makes it less obvious I know shes gonna be there.

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    Default Re: Facebook Dilemma

    I'd say never leave it up to chance, scrap number 2. at this point if you still can't choose, flip a coin. Because after all if it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world. Though in my opinion I'd go with number 3, but that's just me. Good luck! keep us posted on whether it works out or not.
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    Default Re: Facebook Dilemma

    Even if she sees it and wants to see you she still may not contact you. Most women expect men to initiate. And they're kind of right lol. Not sure if that's a risk you want to take.

    Even if you lose "cool points" for contacting her about it, you can get them back tenfold once you are in each others presence and running game. Gotta spend money to make money. So don't worry about your cool points.
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