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Thread: might have pushed my game to early? help

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    Default might have pushed my game to early? help

    so im messaging this girl off a social network and i think i might have messed up a little bit in my game lol
    i havent met this girl yet, i know her through a friend (which that friend is not talking to me at the moment)

    so i finally got a chance through hit her up after leaving comments on her pictures
    the last picture i commented she took a mirror pic of herself
    at work and there happened to be a box in the picture so i decided to use the box to engage her lol heres the convo,...

    me: Why do you have boxes laying around? put them away now! Lol
    me: ;-)
    (she deleted her comments and mine, idk why but from i remember here you go)
    her: thats a mans job
    me: i thought you were an independent woman
    her: i am, i just dont want to hurt my back and then i cant be independent.

    (from there i messaged her, and i got the word for word messages)

    me: ok i got you, coming over to move those boxes lol (then i put a laughing face)
    her: lmao
    her: someone has jokes
    me: someone does
    me: are you a jokester?
    her: yes.
    (i stepped away from my phone for a bit)
    me: you said yes because youre trying to get on my good side! lol
    her: im bored tell me a story
    her: pshhhhh i dont need to try
    me:ha!
    me: what makes you think that youre on my good side? just cause youre pretty doesnt mean you are lol ;-p
    her: im not pretty lol im ok
    (shes an 8 maybe more)
    me: well you are pretty but thats really common, what does (her name) have to share with the world?
    her: (it was a smiley, but the lame looking kind)




    can i save this??? can ya criticize me game
    thank you

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    Default Re: might have pushed my game to early? help

    I reckon putting the qualifier out when you did was good primarily because she tried to say she was top sh1t ( by not needing to try)

    so no

    anyhow you could just say "well?"

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    Default Re: might have pushed my game to early? help

    I think you did fine. Social networks are just a pain to work with. It's not face to face and she can just dismiss you whenever she wants. Plus it seems like she is on the "entertain me" end so she's not attracted yet.

    One good way to build attraction through online is a cold read. Many techniques on how to do it so run a search. Cockiness doesn't work as well online than it does in person. Plus it's safer to qualify her AFTER she is attracted.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: might have pushed my game to early? help

    The "what do you have to share with the world" seemed kind of sarcastic, like you're implying she has nothing of value... there's negging and then there's just being an asshole. Of course that wasn't your intention but just saying she might have took it that way.

    At this point I would just drop the subject, find something to re-engage her on.

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    Default Re: might have pushed my game to early? help

    lol i gotta choose my words carefully thanks


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