so the following happened: I had met this lady a year ago and we talked occasionally when we saw each other. The other day I saw some sort of "connection" and ioi's side-a-side (mine and hers of course) and so I asked her out immediately. No surprises, a Number Close and the date.
I figured I could do some rapport via text, just to let go a bit of the aggressiveness I showed (we barely knew our names when I made the move of asking her out, I put no effort in getting her comfortable, I felt she was into me so I decided to test the interest).
Dropped a couple of jokes and noticed she's a slow texter (so am I tbf). And not a smart one either. I absolutely love non-sense and I don't give two sh!ts if some ladies don't. So for as weird as my text sounded she usually laughs when I crack some jokes face-to-face.
She appeared to understand the joke, but also got confused. So I know there's not much to do via text, we're both really busy all day for similar reasons (we see each other frequently though).
So I ask: what I'm doing is not replying to her last text. I don't plan to reply until I next see her in person and then I'll just sort out the details of our date the day before. Do you think that this is the best approach or do you have any suggestions?
Note: if I keep on replying I am pretty sure she'll think I'm trying too hard. This way, yeah my sense of humour was strange/smart, may have weirded her out but not replying will probably make her think she did something wrong, not me.