Without a lengthy back-story, I got the number of a girl in my college class I hit it off with. I was pretty blunt with her about what I thought of her looks and said she should go on a date with me on Saturday. So here I am now. We decided to go to the movies, which now I think was a shitty date choice, but wtf am I going to do now, right?
Right now, I am looking to get into a long-term relationship, so that is my goal for this date. Right now, what I know about her from talking with her is that:
-she works full time as an accountant
-she commutes to the same city for work that I do
-she used to work in a bank
-she took a few years off from school before last year.
-she is a road geek
-she shifts from living at friends houses.
I got her number on Wednesday and have not texted her for any reason other than scheduling our date. Texting is a really shitty form of communication and I would rather get to know her in person. With the outcome I am looking for, I know I should be asking questions that reveal her personality. Also, I know I should probably escalate with her on the first date.
How do I escalate? Should I go for sex on the first date? Also, even though I know I need to make small-talk, I don't want to beat around the bush and spend the entire night bullshitting. I want to create some connection with her so that if I ask her to date me she will day yes. How do I create a connection with her?