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    pua_future_master is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Urgent: Need Advice for Replying to an old friend who just moved back

    So just a brief background. I met this girl while I was in college. We were really good friends and used to hang out a lot, she moved out of my home town a year ago but just moved back. She texted me that she was back and I replied something like "Lemme knw if you need any help or something" cause shes my friend and I wanted to be nice. Long story short, she said she did need my help with moving some stuff. Just need to know if I should reply something along the lines like "sure, when can i help" or if you guys can help me think of something better.

    P.S: If i do help her out, I would love to k-close her as well. so any tips would be really helpful!

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Urgent: Need Advice for Replying to an old friend who just moved back

    Some updates! so i replied and now we set up a date sometimes this week for me to go help her out. Also, she was supposed to meet me today but flaked cause she's "broke". What should i reply to her to make it sound like she has to make it up to me or something? btw she's an HB8. will really appreciate any help!

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    Default Re: Urgent: Need Advice for Replying to an old friend who just moved back

    1. A girl who texts you that she is broke is usually either (a) looking for you to pay, (b) nicely saying 'you haven't attracted me enough", (c) waiting for you to come up with a less expensive thing to do.

    2. This is extremely, extremely common with 20-24 college girls, and latin american countries where girls actually don't have money.

    3. I always counter this with a line that does C while addressing B and A.

    Like this: "the Strip Club i was going to take you to had free drinks and free entrance for ladies. SInce you're flaking, how about you put together some picnic food and we can hit the park and just be lazy for a while. Then we can maybe hit up a club this weekend."

    Her response to this will open up a lot of things about what state she is in with you. Calibrate from there.
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    Default Re: Urgent: Need Advice for Replying to an old friend who just moved back

    Thanks CostaRica!

    Did some back and forth texting after that. and now she invited me over to her place for dinner this week, she's cooking! any advice on how i could take things further there?


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