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Thread: did i do anything wrong?

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    Default did i do anything wrong?

    i got this girls number and ive been texting her a few times in a week. I also see her quite a few times since she is the receptionist in the gym.

    ME:hey whats up
    HER:Heyyyy nm just finished work
    ME:nice had a good day?
    HER: yaaah uu
    ME:yaaaa went well today what you up too tonight?
    HER:im at soundddd u
    ME:Home. A basket of puppies & an ice cold beer... I Could use ONE of these things right noww
    HER:Loool give me a basket of puppies ill give u a cold beer
    ME:Oh jeeeez! i cant believe it...
    Her:lollll

    My goal is to ask her out but i see her at the gym sometimes so i was thinking i can do it face to face instead of texting. I did not replay after that. It was late at night. I don't want to be the always the one to say something. So far so good or not?

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    Default Re: did i do anything wrong?

    if she says yaaaa i wouldnt reply with yaaaa. to her it looks like your either mocking her or bored and cant think of anything to say so you mirror her. also conversation is a bit dry, try to stay away from the typical q and a. they get bored with that and wont text you first if they know that what theyre going to spend the next however long doing that. oh and you replying after her lol wouldnt be you initiating conversation, it would be her turn and the fact that you didnt reply proves to her in her mind that you are indeed getting bored. humor is a bit childish which is fine after youve gotten the conversation going but if you trying tobhave sex with this girl ever i wouldnt talk about baskets of puppies much more lol i get that its an expression but when your trying to get a girl interested you want to raise sexual Tension to get her wanting to set up a meeting, which means you wanna avoid childish sarcasm if you can. sorry if im being too blunt, just trying to get this done quick lol
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: did i do anything wrong?

    damn man . why do i suck in this shittttt!

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    Default Re: did i do anything wrong?

    lol happens to the best of us, im not the best at texting women, i was where you are now like four months ago and thats been myvmain focus for the past couple months. i know all the right things to say in person but absolutely hate texting. pretty good at it now but still avoid it when i can
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    Default Re: did i do anything wrong?

    i know same here, im very good talking in person and picking u girls but when it comes to texting... i just dont have it. I know she is interested from what i see in the gym.. but i dont want to lower my chances with my awful texting skills. I texted her last night would be great to text her today to see if shes working or not pass by or ask her out or something. but even there that would probably make me look like a stalker.. or i can go for a work out, i can sure use one atm..

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    Default Re: did i do anything wrong?

    If there's one thing that I've learned on this forum (and thats proven to be most effective), it's that when texting, use cocky funny.

    Example to get the conversation started:
    "I know you're going through a tough time... you didn't see me in my work out clothes today..."

    no questions. you STATE that she missed you. sound excessively cocky so that you're sure that she gets the sarcasm. She'll probably laugh, and keep going.

    "it was horrible..." etc...

    I've actually gotten a text conversation started by stating
    "Listen. I'm flattered that you want to talk to me so much, I know I can be extremely interesting, but it's beginning to be oppressing."

    I know, its very bold. but if you are bold, you are confident, you stick out of the bunch. That's what they like.

    good luck!
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    Default Re: did i do anything wrong?

    .. and remember: a real man doesn't do anything wrong. (until he is in a relationship).
    - CR

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    Default Re: did i do anything wrong?

    ya i also realised she gives her number out like candy. That turned me off , time to find more girls :P

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    Default Re: did i do anything wrong?

    You didn't really differentiate yourself from any other guy texting her. I mean if she's an attractive girl, she probably has a few guys after her.

    Read some text guides:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...ing-guide.html

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...ame-rules.html


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