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    So I met this girl about a month ago through a mutual friend. First time we met nothing happened between us, 2 weeks ago went out with friends and she was there, ended up spending a lot of time talking with her. We exchanged numbers and have been texting each other regularly. Then last weekend I finally kissed her at the bar, we made plans to go out with a group Friday and kissed again in a photo booth and kissed some more that night before everyone called it a night. Last night at her house she has some friends over, I stuck around till after everyone left and we ended up making out on the couch for a while. We haven't spoke about the kissing or what ever it is going on between us.Today I found out via FB that she most likely has a BF living in Argentina, however there is no pictures of said BF or status. she has made no mention of this. I would like to date this girl but not to sure how I should approach the situation. Should I just keep acting normal as if nothing has happened, ask her what she is looking for or do something else. Any advice would be helpful.

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    Default Re: confused about current situation

    Yes you're right. Keep going as if everything is normal. Obstacles only exist if you treat them like they do. She is obviously ok with her decision to fool around with you. Unless you are thinking about a relationship with her. In that case then I would not recommend emotionally investing in such a person.
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    Ever since the heavy makeout session on Saturday she has seemed a little different. I text her asking if she wanted to go on a motorcycle ride, didn't hear bacl from her for 8 hours. Then today she has been quiet for the most part. I have asked her to dinner and got "ill have to check, this week is going to be busy." I will see ber again this weekend as it is a mutual friends bday. What should my nezt move be, I would like to eventually date this girl.

    Should I ask one of her gf's if she has a bf, directly ask her, or continue to act like I don't know.

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    Beings that you want to possibly take her seriously then it would be a good idea to get it out of the way and ask her directly. Me, personally, won't take a woman seriously if she has a bf and is messing with me. No matter how good I think my game is.
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    Update...
    Went out with the group again, her friend spoke with me and said she wants me to ask her out. Which I have before a few times, but she is now done with her bf who moved to a different country. I got her out on the dance floor to 2 step. She loved it, ended up going back to her place and staying the night with her. Made out for a long time, and messed around a bit. Didn't really try to F close, which looking back on it I should have. Was kind of hesitant to be honest, not sure why.

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    I would like to see another update to this story
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    Default Re: confused about current situation

    Taking her out Friday night on a date, will be the first time we have hung out just us 2. Planned on dinner, but not sure what else I am going to do. If anyone has any ideas please feel free and wish me luck.

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    Default Re: confused about current situation

    Keep escalating.... She might start to wonder why you haven't sealed the deal and possibly LJBF you.

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    Oh I will continue to escalate for sure. What's everyones thoughts on a comedy club after dinner. Another option is a club/bar that has a high tech golf driving range, could be a good Kino opportunity.

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    Another update and seeking advice on how to proceed. We went out on a date again had a lot of fun. She was all over me then went to meet up friends at a local bar to watch a UFC fight. Afterwards went back to her place. Was in her bed with her shirt off, but once again she would not let it get it further than. The next day my buddy had told me he had asked her about the BF that moved to another country and if they were still together. She said yes and he asked what was going on between me and her, at which she avoided the question. Should I call her out on this and ask her where me and her stand and what we are doing if she is still dating this guy?


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