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    Default Alpha to put her in her place after an insult or alpha to let it slide

    Hey,

    So anyways I was texting this girl back and forth about meeting. She had something big happen in her life I was pressing for a 2nd date. I was getting blow off language when I was lets do x,y,z or let me know a day you are free. Was getting the whole I have to work, this or that. So I told her lol I'm done asking. She started telling me all this stuff like about whats going on in her life and how I just recently asked her to hang out. I told her that I've asked her a bunch and it was no big deal but since she didn't show interest I was more interest in talking to people who did. She called me a dick for not understanding her. I told her I'm not a mindreader and if she is going through issues just say she can't meet etc,etc.

    Anyways I smoothed it over and we had plans to talk on the phone tonight. Even though she couldn't commit to a date at all this week suddenly she is free to talk. I have thick skin and its not a big deal, but I don't wanna set a precedent. I'm almost thinking that her calling me a dick is unacceptable no matter what is going on in her life.

    Any advice?

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    Default Re: Alpha to put her in her place after an insult or alpha to let it slide

    Don't bring it up if it happened awhile ago. It isn't alpha to bitch about some insult she threw at you in the past. It just shows you let it affect you more than it should. I would either ignore it and move on with the relationship, or if you're uncomfortable with the relationship end it.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Alpha to put her in her place after an insult or alpha to let it slide

    No it happened this morning via text. I did bitch a little about her not committing. But I was telling her that I'm not a mindreader and either she wants to hang out or not after a month or texting everyday. Can't be in her head to know every dramatic reason. She was real response once she thought I was gonna bounce lol.

    I just don't wanna set a precedent for her petty insults. I get it things happen but I can't get mad and call a girl a bitch everyday I get annoyed.

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    Default Re: Alpha to put her in her place after an insult or alpha to let it slide

    You didn't tell us what was "going on in her life," but if she was legitimatelybusy then you were kind of being a dick. Just like she doesn't occupy every moment of your day, you don't occupy every moment of hers.

    It's your call. If you think she was out of line, then decide what to do. I wouldn't bring it up later if it happened this morning. If you want to correct a behavior you should do so right after it occurs or else there the connection between the behavior and the negative stimulus isn't as strong.
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    Default Re: Alpha to put her in her place after an insult or alpha to let it slide

    Well this was a girl who was blowing up my phone 24/7. All the time good morning good afternoon etc etc. she wouldn't commit before the event and wouldn't after and was meet upfront but left me to be a mind reader . I'd agree with most girls ya I'm not on her list until I become a priority. All I was saying is since she never offered another day to chill and made vague excuses that she wasn't interested . After the event I told her I'd be there to listen.

    If I'm in the wrong I am. You are right I won't commit on the dick thing tough


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