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  1. #1
    RussellJ is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Facebook/texting help for an idiot

    First off I am a good looking, well dressed guy but with ZERO game and I finally came for help...
    Hello gents, I am new and I need help...big time. I'm having difficulty on how to proceed with a friend of a friend I met a couple weeks back. (about a month) I added her on FB she’s "liked" some pics of mine traded playful banter on walls etc. I saw her out at the bar with some mutual friends and as I walked into the bar she asked if I wanted a drink, I was quite stupid and said I already had one. (Idiot...I know) I eventually got to talking to her later in the evening and we shared some playful flirtation, laughing, touching, etc...She even pulled out her phone at one point to show me something which would have been a perfect time to get her number, but I ended up getting back to my friends and she hers, but before I left I said, "Make sure you save the last dance for me." (She kinda gave me a funny look but then smiled)Now there is approx 1 hour till the bar closes and she it right behind me dancing and I freeze, I don't get behind her and grind...nothing. (I would have taken her by the hand and twirled her around and danced with her as I am a phenomenal dancer, but felt weird just grinding her) I went outside 2 smoke, came back in and she was gone. I posted her a picture of Houdini on her Fb wall she responded with ? I responded with you have a lot in common..she responded hahaha..... Ok so I know I royally screwed up quite a few times, as she has given me a bunch of opportunities that I did not capitalize on..Now I have no idea when I will see her next and I don't know how to proceed. Out mutual friend told me she got out of a bad relationship recently and was feeling blue. She posted a pic with a friend recently with a forced smile and now shes posting she went out with an old friend..(a dude) I plan to proceed with "I hate to see you force a fake smile, especially when I know what a great real smile you do have...all I'm saying is I can tell you're hurting, I've been there before if you need someone to talk to I'm here for you." Honestly I have NO Idea what the hell I am doing, that's why I'm here. Help me men!

    ps: I'm acquaintances with a couple of guys that have slept with her and I am better looking.

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    KingKino is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Facebook/texting help for an idiot

    Hmmm I'm sensing that she wants to like you, but you are heading towards the friendship zone due to your actions (or lack of actions). If you're a good looking guy, and you can sense she likes you then all you need to do is know how to escalate from light touching to more serious touching (like holding hands) to kissing to f*cking. You are the man, so you need to be the one to make the moves.
    So, from where you are now, I would invite her out on a date (make sure she knows that yes it is a date) to somewhere cool/fun like a game arcade or bowling, walk to an icecream place afterwards (take her hand and walk hand in hand) and then do a kiss close (look up how if you want tips)
    Good luck bro!

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    RussellJ is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Facebook/texting help for an idiot

    Well my only option is to ask her out via facebook, is that the best idea? i guess at this point it may be my only course of action, unless I wait until I see her again.

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    KingKino is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Facebook/texting help for an idiot

    I wouldn't wait. Take the initiative and ask her out. There's nothing wrong with asking over facebook - it's pretty much the same as asking via text message. She probably really WANTS you to ask her out!

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    RussellJ is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Facebook/texting help for an idiot

    I had a date with her, didnt go the way I hoped, but it went well i suppose.


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