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Thread: Where's the balance between no-contact and being fun and interesting?

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    Default Re: Where's the balance between no-contact and being fun and interesting?

    Quote Originally Posted by Essential17 View Post

    Boondockó ...... This particular girl is making it very challenging to tell what she wants. Sometimes I'll get the impression she wants to move things up a notch on the relationship scale, so I'll make a small romantic gesture, but then she'll push it away as fast as possible. I'm still trying to feel her out, but right now I'm playing it safe by trying to not be overbearing but making it clear I'm interested. I've already invited her out twice since she got back, and she hasn't tried to make a counter-offer, so right now the ball is most definitely in her court!
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    Oh we have all been there. Very easy to push (and necessary) when there is the bad behavior...especiall y frustrating if she is giving mixed signals. I am definitely all for using PUA type techniques even DURING a relationship ( just altered....obviously you shouldnt do things like ignore her and hit on her friends..LOL).

    I wish you luck man.

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    Default Re: Where's the balance between no-contact and being fun and interesting?

    Update for anyone curious:

    Cute girl's disappearing act lasted almost a month, eventually she asked for her belongings back from my apartment.

    She never once explained anything to me. Even after I nonchalantly handed over her stuff and we spent a 3 hour lunch together. She just acted like nothing had happened. [Confirmation that girls can act legally insane.]

    Eventually I discovered she'd started thinking about some other guy, from just before we met, who hadn't been showing interest in her. I now suspect our entire relationship was just a rebound thing to distract her from this other guy. As much as I could do the no-contact thing, this other guy was obviously there first and was actually legitimately not interested in her.

    Silver Lining
    I can't be mad at her. If it wasn't for her, I wouldn't have started talking to other girls three weeks ago for the ego boost and to distract me from her — and because of that, I accidentally stumbled upon an incredibly funny, beautiful girl. I actually found I had much more in common with cute girl 2, than I did cute girl 1, and I'd even strongly considered ending things with cute girl 1 before she absently did herself.

    If you ever think something's not quite right with a girl, if she's not being completely open and honest with you, even if you've been dating a few months, keeping your options open is never a bad thing.


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