First of all, for the past week I visited this forum for some extra tips on the way I 'should' date woman. Thanks for those advises. But still, I got some questions about how to deal with my specific situation.
I met this girl at a party, number closed, waited some time and then send her a message. It felt good and we're texted (Whatsapp) like a lot, every day. It went on like 2 weeks and we dated about two times.
Then we planned another date, on sunday, but suddenly she started to flake ("I want to meet you, but I got this friend of mine who needs my attention right now"-).
First I ignored it, but later on the day I felt my ego blewn. I told her that 'I didn't like the way she canceled the date'.
For two days in two weeks we had no contact, but then I started to send her a text again, we called and I explained the situation. Then she told me she 'needs time to think things over'. She wasn't sure she wanted to date again. But she said: "I like to text with you, so we can always text'. I thought the same about it and did send her a text, she did sent me a text sometimes, but it was clear that the way we text was very different: She didn't gave me a direct respons when we were texting of sometimes she didn't answered me at all.
This all made me very, very insecure, because I really liked this girl.
What I then did was: asking her out on a date, she refused because she said: "I need some time to think things over".
The next day (yeah, I now) I did the same. Now this girl was mad ("Stop asking me! What are you, a sick psychopath?"). I explained the situation to her (I'm a little insecure). And we started to texting eachother again (but like 2-3 messages on a day, it felt different, somtimes less, and sometimes she sends me only a 9gag-picture, and I don't even know how to respond on that).
Monday I sended her a text again, that we are going to get some drinks. So we met yesterday and she suddely started to talk about 'our situation'. She didn't know what to do because: 'I was so needy and obsessive'. She suggested: What if you are that obsessive right now, what about in a relationship later?
My respons was: "I can't change your mind, and it's not the way I wanted this either". "So we can drink our drinks and go home right now".
Then she said: "I want to think it over again, think if I want continue dating with you". Which I thought it was ok and told her that.
Then I said: "let's just be friends than". Then her face turned like dissapointed and she asked me "Did you pick me up just to be friends?". Then I told her "I give you time to think it over, and I think it over as well".
We ended this 'date' good, and on my way back home she sended me a message "Did you like my lipstick?" But there was no 'goodnight' or 'thanks for the evening' message.
So this morning I was checking my phone again, and she sended me again one of those 9gag-photos.
1. How do I deal with this girl? What should I do?
2. How do I deal with this 9gag-photo things?
3. Should I give her the cold shoulder, or what.
4. What are my chances?
5. Other tips are welcome
Thanks for reading, answers will be nice.
And: sorry for the bad English (like the band though).