Re: How should I proceed with this girl?
This is a bit cliche, but actions speak louder than words.
I say to my gf needy stuff quite often. Like if we didn't talk for a day I'll tell her "Babe I called you 10 times yesterday." She obviously knows I'm playing. Or I'll say "Who are you texting? Your other bf?" These are needy things, but my behavior says otherwise ya know. So idk if this will help your situation beings that mine has to do with a gf.
But you could easily say "Is it weird that I miss you?" or "I'd love to see you." But then counter it with your behavior. Either flake or act disinterested when you meet her. Mixed signals are good! But I'm mostly talking out my ass HA. I just love push/pull
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."