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    Default will I ever see her again?

    This girl is about 2 years older(im undergrad, she's post grad) So i ended up bringing her and a friend back to my place after the bars. We danced and teased, light kissing for hours... really clicked and had a great time. Lots of foreplay. She kept saying how I had the most amazing moves and how she was totally caught off guard. She even tells me she knew I had a nice cock while we were dancing. But later she tells me that she's been in a long term relationship and has decided to get back with the guy.. well eventually we make our way up to my room and the second we get in she opens her shirt and we start making out and messing around.. But she wouldn't let me take her pants off or anything. She kept apologizing that she's gotten me this far and can't do anything with me but she said she wanted to so bad... So after a few rejected attempts to keep her in bed.. she say's I really have to go. I asked for her number.. and she told me to put my number in her phone. Then she goes back downstairs and goes to sleep with her friend. Next morning i drop them off and she gives me a big hug and tell me I'm amazing. Ahh what the heck?

    Such an amazing girl but why wouldn't she go any farther? Also, any chance that she'll contact me? I'm so confused by this..

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    Default Re: will I ever see her again?

    sounds to me like they might of been separated a little but she was getting back with him but was still free that night,she wanted to but was conflicted by her long term relationship.so might have to use boyfriend destroyer tactics. and when you put your number in her phone you should of accidently called it or got the number of her friend for odds of running into her again.

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    Default Re: will I ever see her again?

    ... or texted her ex and say "it's over, we are never getting back together again. don't ever call me..."
    - CR

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    koalaballa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: will I ever see her again?

    Yea well when I was trying to put my number in her phone i didn't really know how to do it.. so she like told me step by step. So I put my number in, hit call and then end call and save.. It all happened so fast that the call never went through to my phone... anyways if she does text me back.. I'll definitely try out the bf destroyer.. It sounds really fucked up and I love it. Even when she was telling me she's deciding to get back with the guy... I could sense some reluctance in her voice. I should've asked her about it more... but I was a little too drunk at the time to realize it.

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    koalaballa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: will I ever see her again?

    so i currently started the bf destroyer on her... and the first reaction is a little unexpected. I just said that the guy must really be amazing to deserve her... yatt yatta. she was like yea hes a great guy... she says I'm also an awesome guy and i too deserve an great girl. So what now?

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    Default Re: will I ever see her again?

    At this point, you should agree with her. Your mission with the BF Destroyer Method is to show that your value is superior to her man's. You should always actively seek to build yourself up and degrade him. This is also how you become a successful Alpha Male. Perhaps you could also find an additional advantage in checking that out.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    koalaballa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: will I ever see her again?

    so should i say something like... "I agree.. I'm tryin to find someone.. but so far theyre all taken"??

    keep in mind this girl has called me "amazing" many times already

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    Default Re: will I ever see her again?

    Oh God no!!! That makes you comefrom a position of scarcity, and this is a dlv, which you DO NOT WANT.

    I apologize, I should have made myself clearer:

    You should not say "Oh but I`ll never find a girl" or yap yap yap. You should be like "Yea, but she still has to be ___". Establish yourself as a man with high standards who really couldn't care less for women.

    By the way, what you said before is NOT the BF Destroyer. What you did was try to lick her boots and hope that she sees value in you. NEVER do that. Always aim for the BF. You should have said "Wow, he sure must be smart/funny/ care about you a ton". You want to build him up as the best boyfriend in a way that seems to make him less valuable than he really is. Find the negative aspects of the relationship, and hammer them home.

    Go read back over the BF Destroyer and look at some examples by other posters, because right now it looks like you have the wrong idea of it.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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