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    You_Said_So is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Got a date with help of those texting guides, call or continue texting?

    Hi,

    Ok little back story. N- closed this girl on OKcupid. Exchanged couple of texts before she said good night. This is the next day

    Her: Bored
    Me: I wish I could provide some sorts of entertainement
    Her: Why don't you then?
    Me: Because I am not sent on this earth to be your Dancing Monkey
    Her: hahaha, well that was a fun second
    Me: However, I have a plan which could benefit both of us, you a better driver or shooter?
    Her: ....?
    Me: pick one
    Her: never been near a gun, so ummm driver?
    Me: Great, I was planning to rob a bank, my partner backed out at last minute. You in?
    Her: hahahahahah, totally in!!!
    Me: As I am the one to come up with the plan, you will be the one arranging the props. Say masks and stuff.
    Her: But the big question is when?.... this sunday...
    Me: Sunday 7.21, opposite xxxx bank at xxxx bar. We need some liquid courage. My code name will be Danny Ocean. I will be the handsome one in the bar.
    Her: 7.21 is fine. I will meet you there, Mr. Ocean.
    Me: Well, I need to put this down in my schedule. I am confused between using a pen or a pencil.
    Her: ????
    Me: Well if I put this down with a Pen, then I won't be making any backup plans.
    Her: Hahahaha, silly.
    Me: Waiting for a definite answer.
    Her: I have it with a pen, so I guess....same.

    I thought its better to leave the conversation due to being busy with work and saw no point in dragging the convo.

    she again sent a message about 30 mins later

    Her: I have it with a pen, so I guess....same.
    Me: I got your message, its just if I want to keep my boss away from killing me till Sunday, then I need to give it a break to phone.
    Her: Ohhh.. Ungrateful World!!!!

    I knew something like this can happen. I have a habbit to mess with text when I go for too long. Is she pissed or what?

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    Default Re: Got a date with help of those texting guides, call or continue texting?

    Well it's hard to say since nobody here knows her, but to me it sounds c&f? Like "Oh, what a pity for you ". I think it is playful, but I think you should arrange the date asap. Otherwise you have to be really good to seduce her on the phone, read through the stickies if you haven't done that already. Just my opinion.

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    Default Re: Got a date with help of those texting guides, call or continue texting?

    Quote Originally Posted by Juetas View Post
    Well it's hard to say since nobody here knows her, but to me it sounds c&f? Like "Oh, what a pity for you ". I think it is playful, but I think you should arrange the date asap. Otherwise you have to be really good to seduce her on the phone, read through the stickies if you haven't done that already. Just my opinion.
    Isn't that Sunday supposed to be a date? Lol I will be making a fool of myself thinking that was a definitive date.

    What I was asking is what she meant by Ungrateful World? Was she saying I am being mean or something? So asked if I should call her or keep texting and mess this whole thing.

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    Default Re: Got a date with help of those texting guides, call or continue texting?

    Yeah sure, but I dunno, it didn't sound that sure. If it is sure, then I wouldn't text with her that much since you should stay a little exclusive too. Maybe a few c&f and if you think there is enough attraction sexual innuendos, but I would leave it with that. But anyway, I'm new here, it's just what I think I would do.

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    Default Re: Got a date with help of those texting guides, call or continue texting?

    1. She isn't mad. Those last 2 sentences make no sense at al, but trust me, she isn't mad at all.

    2. You are playful texting and it's good, but do not show up at that bar until you call her to confirm (preferably) or be more solid on the date/time location. Otherwise there is a 50% chance she will flake, get scared, or still think you are kidding.

    3. When you have rapport liket his, you can assume it won't just break for no reason. The more you build, the harder it is to break, and nothing you've done even comes close to breaking it.
    - CR

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    Default Re: Got a date with help of those texting guides, call or continue texting?

    All that texting should be done over the phone atleast. If you build rapport through text you will become text buddy worst when you havent met the girl face to face.

    Look all you did was become her dancing monkey, in this case a dynamic e-book she can read and play around with. She isnt getting attention in the real world and seeking your energy to consume.

    Next time you talk to her set up a date asap.
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