Re: She says "it's not a date, just meeting of two new friends"
Doesn't sound like there was much comfort building. Maybe not attraction building either. Do you know why we PUAs build comfort? This is what goes through her head meeting up with a guy she barely knows.
"Ok he's either a stalker, rapist, or murderer. I can't meet him yet until I find out more."
This is an oversimplification, but you get the idea. Essentially she doesn't need to find out more about you. She just needs to feel safe around you.
Comfort is suppose to JUSTIFY why you want to continue with her. Doing it solely based on attraction is risky. She knows you know nothing about her and just think she's hot. And most women require something deeper. (Unless you get lucky and find a wild one lol) Qualification is more for building that justification, but it ties in with comfort as well.
Her saying that it was just two friends meeting was a sign that it was too early. If you got to comfort phase then both of you would be open about your interest in each other and talking about continuing your relationship ie: dating. The fact that she wanted to disguise a date with you is either because she has a bf or there wasn't enough comfort built. (Maybe that guy was her bf lol.)
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."