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    Default How to get her interested?

    This girl has been my friend for 2 years now. At first I gave off signals that I was flirting with her, but I naturally flirt with people I first meet. She soon realized that I liked her, but only as a friend. I'll be honest, last year I was desperate and needed a date to the prom, so I asked her. She turned me down because she told my friend that she "didnt want anything to happen between us."

    So a year later I texted her, I was friendly but when I tried to flirt with her after a few texts I copied a line from The Game and said "I cant even talk to you anymore!" Obviously that technique only works in the field, preferably around drunk women. Then she didnt text me back. I wouldn't have. So fast forward another week and I broke and texted her again saying "Just for the record, The other day when I said "I can't even talk to you" I was joking." and She sent back "Hahahaha I know".

    So I know that I should ignore her, but this is probably the girl that I love more than any other girl. This past year at college I've been practicing getting girls numbers and dating a lot of girls, I'm completely different than the guy she knew before I came to college. Now that I feel like I'm ready, I want to get her for myself since she is the only girl that I've loved. I just would really like some advice on this issue

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    Default Re: How to get her interested?

    Love is a state of mind, It's dynamic. With that said you can get anyone to love you, since that is what you're after right? Love? The idea is to get her in that state of mind and keep her there. I'd say since you're such good friends already to just make a point to hang out with her more. Take it slow but escalate during these occasions to an eventual date, or kiss, or whatever. Don't come out and say it, essentially forcing your feelings upon her, as it would be overwhelming and have a negative outcome. Make it seem like it's naturally happening, let it grow. It's like watching a pot of water boil, waiting for it to happen, it wont. Be chill, if it's gonna happen it's gonna happen, and there's no secret phrase or line that I can give you to make it happen, you can't force it.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: How to get her interested?

    Thanks Thatoneguyonforums, I think you answered my question. I'm going to keep a low profile with her until summer when were back in the same area, then make my move!


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