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    Default On a scale of lame to lame, how lame is my first text?

    Me: Hi. I believe you're the cute tri-lingual girl I met last night. You should give me free Polish lessons so I don't have to buy rosetta stone. 1:59 PM

    I really tried to make this text interesting, but I think I may have just blown my chances at getting a date with this girl. What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: On a scale of lame to lame, how lame is my first text?

    this looks freaking suplicating. why the hell would you ask her for free lessons on your first text? smh. thats a big commitment on her part if she accepts it, even if she was completely attracted to you she would be obligated not to answer such a request

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    Default Re: On a scale of lame to lame, how lame is my first text?

    I was joking. I wasn't actually serious about getting a free lesson lol. I worry that if you think this is the case, maybe she does. Maybe I should have added a wink?

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    Default Re: On a scale of lame to lame, how lame is my first text?

    i just wouldn't have joked about the free lessons over text. instead it would have been a good joke for a 1 on 1 date when she can see your body language and know that you're joking.

    you don't always have to be joking for your texts. if you aren't good at joking over text,just try to use texting exclusively for setting up dates.

    also, you can call her instead of texting, if texting isn't your thing.

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    Default Re: On a scale of lame to lame, how lame is my first text?

    oh and as for joking over text, always add a " :P lol " to show that it was joking.

    by having lol at the end of it it shows that your joking. (its perfectly fine to laugh at your own jokes)

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    Default Re: On a scale of lame to lame, how lame is my first text?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    oh and as for joking over text, always add a " :P lol " to show that it was joking.
    Yeah, I really should have done that. So what can I do from this point? Should I maybe wait and call her tonight (assuming she doesn't reply) to set up a date? I really suck at texting.

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    Default Re: On a scale of lame to lame, how lame is my first text?

    it may be too late to save this one....
    but its worth a shot to try calling her, just don't mention your earlier texting convo, if she asks about it just say you were joking.
    if she doesn't answer her phone leave a message telling her to call you back. if she doesn't give you the time for a phone convo, she won't give you the time for a date.
    don't be too upset if you can't get this girl.

    good luck with your phone call. i hope it goes better than your text :P

    let me know how it goes

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    Default Re: On a scale of lame to lame, how lame is my first text?

    The thing about texting is that there is not ONE perfect thing to say, but a variable amount of things that you can text her to lead her to where you want to take it. With that text it seems like you're trying to get a Day2, and if she's down to do it she will let you know, but you can't always rush things because there's always something that's gonna affect what happens next, and it's called 'the universe.' You can't always control how the universe is going to affect what's happening, but you can control yourself.

    meteora brings up a good point; trying to get a day 2 with just one text is a little absurd, BUT NOT IMPOSSIBLE! Don't be discouraged so easily because every type of game has this one thing in common: it can always be improved. So you keep texting, calibrate, and tweak your text game to fit your style ~ and get your game to a wholenother level
    Success or fail; everything you try can be chalked up as a learning experience~

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    Default Re: On a scale of lame to lame, how lame is my first text?

    Quote Originally Posted by SmoothFLow View Post
    The thing about texting is that there is not ONE perfect thing to say, but a variable amount of things that you can text her to lead her to where you want to take it. With that text it seems like you're trying to get a Day2, and if she's down to do it she will let you know, but you can't always rush things because there's always something that's gonna affect what happens next, and it's called 'the universe.' You can't always control how the universe is going to affect what's happening, but you can control yourself.

    meteora brings up a good point; trying to get a day 2 with just one text is a little absurd, BUT NOT IMPOSSIBLE! Don't be discouraged so easily because every type of game has this one thing in common: it can always be improved. So you keep texting, calibrate, and tweak your text game to fit your style ~ and get your game to a wholenother level
    Thanks. It's just, when I go out one night with friends for 8 hrs on my limited time, get 3 numbers from 3 cute girls, and nothing comes of it, I'm somewhat disappointed. I don't have tons of time to go approach girls, so I would like to at LEAST get a date out of this weekend.

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    Default Re: On a scale of lame to lame, how lame is my first text?

    often times getting dates from girls you meet at the bars is like pulling teeth, the ideal way to get dates (what most people end up doing) is to game girls from their social circles. (gaming girls you've been introduced to and are likely to see again wether you date them or not)

    have you try'd gaming girls from you workplace? or girls who are "friends of friends" ? (these girls will be easier to get dates out of even if it ends up just being friends)


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