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    Question Just been stood up I think, need help on my reaction

    Longtimer lurker, first time poster. I have learnt a great deal of things from this website and now I have come here for a bit more.

    So, I was at a friends party last friday night and I met this really pretty girl. I think she is a HB8 atleast. I am a 5'9'', Indian guy and pretty athletic as I work out well. So, we talked for a while and we had a good connection (I think) going and I got her number, saying that we need to get coffee together.

    I texted her today and she was down to get coffee. I went to pick her up (she doesn't have a car) and after me getting there she texts me saying that she has some computer problems that needed to be fixed immediately. I was furios, as she could have said that earlier but after I told her that I was there, she sends me that shit. She said she would want to go get coffee tomorrow and she was sorry. In my AFC state, I just sent this "Well you better be, cause I came all the way here."

    Although I felt pretty alpha when I said that, I kinda regret it now. do you think I can do some damage control or should I just take this as a lesson and not pursue her anymore. I mean she did say, she was down to getting together tomorrow. Any tips would be greatly helpful.

    Note: I love this place and I have changed quite a bit in my nature after coming to this forum for just a few days.

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    Default Re: Just been stood up I think, need help on my reaction

    If that's all you said in the text, it can very easily be a lighthearted comment misinterpreted. I'd suggest going with that angle and "continuing" this lighthearted attitude, maybe add a ":P" onto your next text. If she brings it up, you didnt mean it seriously. I think one of the worst things you could do is apologize, so I'd avoid that.

    Did she respond after your last text?

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    Default Re: Just been stood up I think, need help on my reaction

    Did she respond after your last text? and was there a follow-up date or has not enough time passed for that?

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    Default Re: Just been stood up I think, need help on my reaction

    She did not respond after my last text. And all this happened sunday evening and now it is monday night. I was thinking more along the lines of "So, your computer got fixed?" to initiate.

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    Default Re: Just been stood up I think, need help on my reaction

    Bad move bro, and too much time has passed. But maybe you can try to reignite the moment by asking her about the promised coffee date.

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    Default Re: Just been stood up I think, need help on my reaction

    Yeah I probably will just do that. She is really hot and I got nothing left to loose on this anyway. The worst that could happen is she won't reply, if she doesn't, I will at least get closure

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    Default Re: Just been stood up I think, need help on my reaction

    "So, your computer got fixed?" sounds alot like "So, you come here often?" haha i advised strongly against it, just go for the coffee as dondon's mentioned, give her a call, atleast then she doesn't have that choice to just let your text go unanswered

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    Default Re: Just been stood up I think, need help on my reaction

    Now you've missed the offer for the coffee date. Make it appear like it was your fault, I would text this:

    "Sorry I wasn't able to make our coffee date redux yesterday, got kinda bogged down in work. How about Thursday?"

    Or:

    "How's your new IT career going? Let me know when you are promoted to the level of 'Have you turned it off and on again?' and we'll go out for that coffee :P"

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    Default Re: Just been stood up I think, need help on my reaction

    Quote Originally Posted by Essential17 View Post
    Now you've missed the offer for the coffee date. Make it appear like it was your fault, I would text this:

    "Sorry I wasn't able to make our coffee date redux yesterday, got kinda bogged down in work. How about Thursday?"

    Or:

    "How's your new IT career going? Let me know when you are promoted to the level of 'Have you turned it off and on again?' and we'll go out for that coffee :P"
    I am sending her the first message as is. Let's see what happens, I will keep this updated.

    I think she is too dumb to understand the second one Haha.

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    Default Re: Just been stood up I think, need help on my reaction

    Quote Originally Posted by TigerClaws View Post
    I love doing this, its like having thousand of brothers. Better than this pussy friends I have IRL.
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