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    Default Well this didnt go as planned...help!

    So this is how the conversation went. Shes been depressed, she likes to be put in her place but doesnt like to be told what to do (she has daddy issues,)

    Me: Hey

    HB8: Hey

    Me:Whats going on?

    HB8: Not much. Called in sick. Just didnt want to get up. Im watching the office

    Me; Oh shit

    HB8: No, Its ok. I am on call for the next 6 days. I think I am entitled

    Me; You better have showered. Im not kidding. You need to snap out of this.


    In retrospect I cam off too strong and scolding. Any idea how to get out of this?

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    Default Re: Well this didnt go as planned...help!

    Use emoticons....
    A little "wink" or "smiley face" can help inject a little more sarcastic humor, so things are taken in a more playful way.

    Plus a little different wording would've helped:

    "You better have showered.... I'm not kidding. You probably smell like a baboon's butt! "


    (or something similar)

    That way it doesn't come off as you reading her the riot act.


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    Default Re: Well this didnt go as planned...help!

    LOL . good point. I should have used emoticons. How to salvage this now though?

    what do you think of "Fine. I will admit it. I was projecting because I havent showered today. You know I hate it when I dont. I smell like baboon ass. Someone in this conversation needs to shower and I am not home."

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    Default Re: Well this didnt go as planned...help!

    Actually, that sounds like something I'd say....
    Especially if I may have pushed things a little too far & was a bit too harsh.

    It's a semi-apology... but it DOES demonstrate you taking ownership for going a little too far.

    But it's always better to push the envelope a bit and possibly have to apologize later, than it is to be a p*ssy.



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    Default Re: Well this didnt go as planned...help!

    agree with T-Mal...

    Emoticons are your friend!
    "She'll forgive you for being a man...but she WON'T forgive you for being a p*ssy"

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    Default Re: Well this didnt go as planned...help!

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Actually, that sounds like something I'd say....
    Especially if I may have pushed things a little too far & was a bit too harsh.

    It's a semi-apology... but it DOES demonstrate you taking ownership for going a little too far.

    But it's always better to push the envelope a bit and possibly have to apologize later, than it is to be a p*ssy.

    Thanks for the perspective. Its always a little hard to think clear when heated emotions get involved.

    I am sure she will be pissed for a while despite the semi-apology. Ill just let her chill and get back to me.

    Thanks again


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