So this is how the conversation went. Shes been depressed, she likes to be put in her place but doesnt like to be told what to do (she has daddy issues,)
Me:Whats going on?
HB8: Not much. Called in sick. Just didnt want to get up. Im watching the office
Me; Oh shit
HB8: No, Its ok. I am on call for the next 6 days. I think I am entitled
Me; You better have showered. Im not kidding. You need to snap out of this.
In retrospect I cam off too strong and scolding. Any idea how to get out of this?