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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    I think that it is easier to start offline. It eases the pressure on the first communication and allows you to put yourself in a non-clingy Mindset

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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    I always reply with something like "ahhh yeaa that's my spot! Lol" or "a little lower please :P"

    Works for me...

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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    Haha, sounds like the torture scene from Casino Royale

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    Exclamation Re: She Poked Me First

    Quote Originally Posted by Swagman View Post
    I have an interesting situation on Facebook that I cannot seem to find much of an input into.

    So there is this girl that I am into on Facebook. We have met and hung out once in person with a group, but that was back in January. Since then, we have passed by each other about once or twice every week. When we do, she usually says hello or hey.

    So anyways, this afternoon I got onto Facebook to see that I had gotten a poke from this girl. I do not remember ever sending her a poke, and this is the first one she has sent me. I'm prepared and now how to respond if I am the first to poke, but I haven't gotten anything like this.

    My plan is to poke her back latter tonight, and if she is on and she responds within that night, then I will fire up a conversation with something like "You know, a simple "hello" could do" or "Are you trying to start a poke war with me?"

    Sound like a good game plan?
    Dude I was about to post this thread and Im glad I found yours, was afraid there wasn't anything for this haha. So background, I met this chick last December got her to my house, we watched a movie, made out, I dropped her off and we didn't hang out after that. One time months later she came over to a party and we drunk made out but besides that she acts like she is better than me, doesn't reply or if she does asks if I can buy her stupid sophomore friends booze (we are in college haha im not hitting on high schoolers) anyway she poked me last night and the last time we talked was when she was asking for booze and i never replied. Keep in mind this was a poke not a message asking for alcohol so i don't think that's what it is for. What helped you? How do you think i should tackle this?

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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    It's funny looking at this and reading all of this now. It's almost like reminiscing on the time where I really struggled with women. Even looking at this, I can now respond naturally, flirtatiously, and effortlessly to anything thrown at me.

    I have discovered that as to pokes and simple messages that involve only a "Hey", your best bet is to one up them and challenge them. For example, a girl from my college poked me, and I hadn't talked to her all summer. My response, which got a big conversation going, was this:

    "Girl, I know you ain't poking me without at least giving me the lowdown on your summer!"

    As I remember somebody saying on the forums, it's easy for somebody to send a message that involves minimal effort. Those girls who poke you and send the short messages all the time are expecting you to lift the finger. Put them on the defensive, force them to qualify themselves, and that will boost you up in the end.

    Now how do I think you should tackle it? Well, she's probably bitter over how it seems like you stood her up in the first round. In the second round, it looks like she's just trying to use you. If you see her at the parties, or if she texts you again asking for alcohol, you could definitely use that to your advantage. Make her work for what she wants. Anyways, back to what you are asking. I would say to ignore the poke for now. Don't respond back or anything, and leave it as it is.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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