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    Default She Poked Me First

    I have an interesting situation on Facebook that I cannot seem to find much of an input into.

    So there is this girl that I am into on Facebook. We have met and hung out once in person with a group, but that was back in January. Since then, we have passed by each other about once or twice every week. When we do, she usually says hello or hey.

    So anyways, this afternoon I got onto Facebook to see that I had gotten a poke from this girl. I do not remember ever sending her a poke, and this is the first one she has sent me. I'm prepared and now how to respond if I am the first to poke, but I haven't gotten anything like this.

    My plan is to poke her back latter tonight, and if she is on and she responds within that night, then I will fire up a conversation with something like "You know, a simple "hello" could do" or "Are you trying to start a poke war with me?"

    Sound like a good game plan?
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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    You COULD try something like, "I wish Facebook had a 'spank your booty button'... because just poking you back seems so anticlimactic! "


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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    Typically I wouldn't say escalate but since she started poking you, you can DEF take things to a "semi-sexual" level

    What T-Mal said is really good, go with it!
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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    Wow, that sounds a bit wild. I'm not sure if that would work for college, but I could always give it a shot. With the fact that we're in college in mind now, would that still be a great opener? I definitely don't doubt the power of it, and ripping out something like that would surely be in my interests. I also think that is something my brother, the pro player in high school, would say.
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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    definitely fire up a conversation, no need to poke her back and wait for another poke from her.
    The respond T-mal came with is really good since it is playful and sexual, you set the frame like a man.

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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    Quote Originally Posted by Swagman View Post
    Wow, that sounds a bit wild. I'm not sure if that would work for college, but I could always give it a shot. With the fact that we're in college in mind now, would that still be a great opener? I definitely don't doubt the power of it, and ripping out something like that would surely be in my interests. I also think that is something my brother, the pro player in high school, would say.
    I would still go with what T-Mal said. Something that popped into my head was "You don't have to poke me if you want to hit on me!" Or something to that effect. But I do like T-Mal's example more...

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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    You know what? Balls to the walls, I'll do it!
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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    One quick question: does it matter if a girl is online or not to message her? I usually wait until she's online, but I'm wondering if there are no restrictions.
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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    You can send private messages to her, just like on here. Done it to a couple women.

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    Default Re: She Poked Me First

    I message girls both when they are online and offline. I actually prefer offline chatting, it becomes more like texting and you get time to think about what you are going to say. Mix it up, both ways are fine


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